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Think I'm pregnant;(

Question Posted Wednesday April 3 2013, 11:57 pm

I am 12 and I already hit my period but for 2 months they have been late. I have been really sick and I'm gaining more weight every day.i can't fit in any of my clothes.but the only time I've really done anything with a boy I made him use a condom and it wasn't even sex.we just made out.plz idk what to so

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adviceman49 answered Thursday April 4 2013, 10:46 am:
You think you're pregnant but you haven't even had sex?

If you are having periods and even though they are late you can’t be pregnant. Your period is the cleansing of your womb making it ready for a fertilized egg to attach and grow into a baby. Late periods means no pregnancy. At 12 years old periods are bound to be irregular.

Your body is changing, that's why your weight is changing

Do you eat a lot of junk food? Junk food is not good for you at this time as you go through puberty. Junk food fast food equals an unhealthy diet.

You can't get pregnant without having sex.

Last you are way too young to be engaging in any type of sex or sex play. You should not even be dating anyone. In all states if the boy is 4 years older than you he can be charged with rape even if you do not have sex as it is illegal to date anyone under the age of consent who is 4 or more years younger than you. When you do date you should be dating boys your own age or no more than a year older until you are at least 18 which is now the age of consent. The age of consent has been changed in most states to comply with the no child left behind law. By changing the age of consent to 18 means that you cannot drop out of high school until you are legally an adult, which is 18.

Good rule of thumb to follow: I do not have daughters though my nieces grew up without a father and I was their father figure for most of their life. I told them when they started dating to follow this rule. “If you are unwilling to bring the boy to meet me then you probably should not be dating him.”

Meaning, if you are unwilling to bring the boy home to meet your parents you should not be dating him.

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kittenlover2000 answered Thursday April 4 2013, 7:18 am:
Wow-you're 12? You're not supposed to be on this site-let alone be having sex!

Quite simply, if you have never had sex, you're not pregnant. Whats so wrong with getting a preganancy test?

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Xui answered Thursday April 4 2013, 1:44 am:
If you haven't had sex then you are not pregnant. At 12, Yoi are way too young to be thinking about sex anyway. By law to even be able to consent is 16.

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lightoftruth answered Thursday April 4 2013, 12:44 am:
You think you're pregnant but you haven't even had sex? No.
Periods are irregular a lot. Your body is changing, that's why your weight is changing or you just have an unhealthy diet.
You can't get pregnant without having sex.

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