we both want to go alltheway to the sexual level what should we do???
Question Posted Thursday April 4 2013, 12:26 am
well me and this guy are very close we`ve already seen each othe pretty much naked we grab each other all the time(and its veryserious) so yesterday i sucked his dick gave him a hand job & we humped IN THE DARK and my boobs were all in his face...we both want to go alltheway to the sexual level but we don` really know how to start off what should we do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Friday April 5 2013, 8:53 pm: the very first thing you should do is get protection.. whether its condoms or birth control or both (even better) .. no glove, no love.
so, always be prepared.
and i dont know how old you both are, but you should probably make sure that this is something you both are very sure about and that you are being 100% safe and that youre old enough to handle the consequences like STDs and pregnancy.
once youre completely sure that this is what you want to do, and its not just a heat of the moment thing, get a condom on immediatley. no ifs, ands, or buts. then, youll have to figure it out on your own.. you need to just go with the flow and do what feels right for both of you.. youll probably need to also invest in some lubrication because the first time can hurt very badly for a girl, and this helps out GREAT amounts, you'd be surprised.
but sex is sex. use protection and explore each other.. but be 100% POSITIVE, SAFE, AND OLD ENOUGH, I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH.
good luck! xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Thursday April 4 2013, 3:07 pm: Without knowing your ages you will not get the answer you're looking for. The fact that you do not know or are unsure of how to take the next step tells us you are young teenagers. Just how young is hard to say. I would guess anywhere from preteen to age 14. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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