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i am scared of losing my virginity
i am scared of losing my virginity, but then i am scared i will never get to have sex. what do i do?
i am 13
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Just have sex I have the same problem and. I am. Just thinking about sex
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Hi there!
Your only 13 years old you should not be worried about having sex. You not ready for that, having sex is a big decision it affects you physically and emotionally you want your first time to be with someone special. Someone you know cares about you. Focus on school and friends... not sex.
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For as long as you feel scared about losing your virginity, it means you are not ready for sex. Don't worry about it! When the time is right, you will be ready and it won't seem scary!
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Right now isn't really a good age to worry. If you're pressured into doing it or you want to do it before you're 16, don't do it. I honestly think your 20's is a good age to lose your virginity because you are grown up; not 13. And if you do it with a guy you know you won't marry, it's honestly no use to lose your virginity to him. Lose it to a guy you want to remember.
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Like everyone else said, you are 13 and you shouldn't be having sex anyways right now. In the future, you're going to meet a good guy, fall in love, and then you could have sex with him.
You should be afraid of having sex at 13 because it would be a huge mistake. There are so many things that could happen if you lost your virginity. You could end up pregnant, or get STDs, or even suffer emotionally because it really is a big deal and you shouldn't even have to worry about it at 13, 14, or even 15.
Wait until you are older, trust me. You will understand more and you're more unlikely to make a mistake.
You will have sex one day, you have soooo many more years ahead of you. Don't get ahead of yourself.
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You are 13 so of course you are scared about losing your virginity! You have plenty of time to get used to the idea & when you are older you will be ready & when the time is just right, with the right guy, you won't be scared at all.
There are probably a few 13 year olds who have lost their virginity. There are plenty more who talk a good game. Do not let what others say cause you to do something you are not ready for. The right guy will come along & he will wait until you are ready for sex.
Don't worry about it, when you are ready it will be fine. :)
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You are 13....
I did not loose my virginity until I was 17. Why the hell are you thinking about sex at your age anyway? You are way to young. Are you ready to possibly raise a child? NO. You are writing to us telling us you are scared. This means you are way to young. Wait a few years and stop thinking like that
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First of all, you are waaaayyy too young to be thinking about having sex. You have plenty of time for that. When you meet someone you truly love or care about or get married to is when you should have sex. Cause to be honest , boys who aren't willing to commit to you, and committ to you for a decent amount of time , then they probably don't really care about you and just want the sex. And that's not good at all. So when you meet someone you truly care about and they truly care about you and youve been in a relationship long enough (years probably) is when you should do it. You should never let anyone pressure you into something if youre not comfortable , do it when your ready and comfortable. Im sure youll lose your virginity one day but you really shouldnt be thinking or worrying about that now. Just have fun with kissing and dating and leave the serious stuff for when youre more comfortable and mature. Okay? Hope that helped
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