Member Since: February 13, 2013
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Last Update: March 14, 2013
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okay so im almost 14 and in my underwear I have seen greenish whitish clumpy stuff I have told my mom but I want to know exactly what it is WHAT IS IT!!!!! (link)
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It's discharge. This is a sign that your period is coming soon. It's COMPLETELY normal :).
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So my ex wants to be friends with benefits and i don't want to be at all i want to be the opposite actually but because i cant say no i agreed and so we were fighting for a bit but he started acting really sweet telling me not to be so hard on myself and that he really cared about me and that the only reason he broke up with me was because i didn't talk to him then asked me if when i get back from Thailand for 3 weeks if we could try again I once again said yes he was being so sweet and amazing i just couldn't help it but now he wants to go for a walk and do "stuff" if you know what I mean but that's really not what i want but once again me not being able to say no i agreed but the problem is that i really like this other guy and we've been getting really close he's amazing i'm not gonna get into details about him but he's exactly what i'm looking for and I think he's gonna ask me out soon (hopefully) but if we end up doing stuff it will wreck everything :'( anyways how the **** do i get out of this btw I've already ditched him twice and i have social anxiety which makes this all so much more difficult because well i have trouble talking ect. what do i do!? :( how do i get out of this?? :( (link)
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It sort of sounds like he's using you to get what he wants. Think about it; It seems like he knows you're trying to tell him you don't want to do this, so he tries to get you to sink in to the compliments.
If I were you, I would ignore him. If he won't leave you alone, tell him up straight the truth.
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I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We have been in a relationship for 6 months, but were acquaintances for almost 3 years before dating.
In the past week, he has suffered some pretty devastating events. On Sunday, his aunt suddenly passed away and today he lost his job. After his aunt's death, he was visibly struggling. He lost interest in sex and we practically had no alone time because when we would finally get home after being out wherever we were (usually his uncle's house) he would just want to go to right to sleep. I started to feel kind of neglected.
Then today, he lost his job. Right now he has to live paycheck to paycheck, which means he won't be able to pay any of his bills like the car loan, insurance, cell phone, etc. He briefly told me what happened and he was going to his uncle's to have a few beers. So I tried to show my support by telling him that he still had me and I would stand by him. He responded by asking me to leave him alone for now. So reluctantly, I am obliging.
My problem is that I am over sensitive and over emotional. I was diagnosed with a mood disorder when I was 16 years old, so it's more difficult for me to cope with difficult occurrences in my life. I get very depressed. Because of my boyfriend's attitude change this week (which I know is probably understandable) I have felt a bit neglected. I tried to express that to him last night before the whole job fiasco happened, and he responded by saying how could I expect to have his undivided attention when he's got so much on his mind (his aunt's death). I tried to understand that by apologizing and asking for a clean slate when we woke up and he agreed.
I know that I am probably coming across as selfish, but for my own sanity I just need some advice on how to cope with him shutting down like this. He's not only my boyfriend but he's my best friend and I wish I could help him through this, but I know the men and women respond differently to stress. Men generally don't want to talk about it the way women do, so I know it's not wise to try and pressure him. But until he's ready to talk to me, or until he feels better and acts more like himself, how do I cope with feeling shut out?
Thanks. (link)
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It's understandable that you are feeling neglected. However, he has had terrible things happen to him this week and I don't think he's really all that happy. I know you're trying everything you can do to make him feel better, but for now I think you should just try to help him as much as you can and to comfort him. He should be better in a few weeks, but for now I think this is all you should do.
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i am scared of losing my virginity, but then i am scared i will never get to have sex. what do i do?
i am 13 (link)
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Right now isn't really a good age to worry. If you're pressured into doing it or you want to do it before you're 16, don't do it. I honestly think your 20's is a good age to lose your virginity because you are grown up; not 13. And if you do it with a guy you know you won't marry, it's honestly no use to lose your virginity to him. Lose it to a guy you want to remember.
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today when i got home from school she told me she had to talk to me. My mother had found my tumblr. Yes, there were plenty of things i shouldn't have blogged about. I know they were wrong, bad words, drugs, anything a mother would be disappointed about was on that tumblr. She was extremely disappointed. She started crying and i started crying. Now she thinks that's the type of person i am, but i honestly am not. I just blogged those things to look cool or because other people thought it was funny. I know, very very immature. I am so stupid. while she was telling me this there was nothing i could do besides cry and tell her i am so sorry. now she won't talk to me only when she needs to. She can barely look at me. I really am a good kid. I deleted the entire blog. I am done with tumblr forever. I just want me and my mom's relationship to go back to the way that it was. Nothing good has happened between us the past couple days,I can't take this anymore. It's tearing me apart. I need help? (link)
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It was very good that you deleted the blog; that would actually be the first step.
Now, the second step. You need to somehow talk to her and tell her that you aren't that kid that blogged that stuff. You were just trying to look cool and it was a stupid thing to do.
I hope everything works out with you and your mom
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Okay so I need prank ideas. For those who have read Looking for Alaska I need something like those. I go to a public school of about 350 kids (really small) and I'm targeting one guy who is an asshole but I don't want to physically hurt him. Just enough to confuse him to the point of insanity. Now it needs to be big I have 9 weeks to plan and pull it off. I just need an idea. It can be elaborate. But I want it to get to him. To like mentally fuck him up to the point where he doesn't know what's going on anymore. All I need are ideas. And I am willing to go to any extent to give him what he deserves.
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This made my day xD
I'd try to have your friends in on the plan so you can do something like this:
You: "Hey, do you have a phone?"
Guy: "Yup."
You: "Can I see it? Just to see if you're lieing or not."
*Shows phone*
You: "What are you doing?"
Guy: "Showing you my phone."
You: "I don't see anything."
*Guy is confused*
*You get your friend*
You: "Look. Do you see any phone?"
Friend: "No."
Guy: "My phone is RIGHT here."
*You get your other friend*
You: "Hey, do you see a phone in his hand?"
Friend 2: "No."
Then he'll think he's gone crazy :). Or at least do SOMETHING like that. I hope I gave you an idea, and good luck!
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and I decided that I'd buy them today and I did, only I saw later that the jeans really didn't match anything I own, and I really want to wear them to school on Monday, but with what? My sister said that a purple/violet or teal shirt might go with it, but I'm not sure. Would black, white, or grey? What colors might go with it and what kinds of tops. And if it helps, I consider myself tomboyish, so no anything too girly or frilly or whatever. Thankx! (link)
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I think a white, teal, or pastel shirt would go good with the jeans :)
Good luck!
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Billie Joe Armstrong. I know-yesterday, he turned 41, and I'm just a teenager. I know every thing about him, and Green Day and Sweet Child and ... Billie. I'm not asking for advice on how to stop liking Green Day since I spent more than $500 of Green Day/Billie stuff just this year, plus having every song of him possible, plus tickets to see his AI show in my area soon but ... is there anything wrong with me? I'm sorry if I disturb you, like, I know he's married, but I've had these dreams and all kinds of ... oh god, I'm ranting, I'll stop. Should I tell my parents, since they already know I like Green Day and all, and my friends like Green Day too. I feel stuck. I have a journal filled with Billie Joe Armstrong drawings and lyrics and desires and entries of why I like him and all ... btw, I'm a girl, just thirteen, and anything would be good. Thank you. (link)
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I love Green Day too, but not that way.
I'm sort of overly obsessed with my idol like you are... It's completely normal to be obsessed with Green Day. You'll [hopefully] get over it eventually :)
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18/f.
I'm just wondering if I could get into any kind of legal trouble for posting loser guys kiks on craiglist? Sometimes I'll have guys I don't know randomly kik me pictures of their penis without ever prompting or asking or even being WARNED. To get some satisfaction for myself I thought of posting their kiks on craigslist in the man seeking man section but I don't want to if I could get into serious trouble. Can I? I didn't think so since you can easily block people on the kik app but then again, I don't know for sure. (link)
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You're fine only if you don't post their real name, address, etc.
And if they have a problem with it, like you said, they can block them.
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Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. We were sitting in his room last night watching TV and we started making out. His hands roamed all over my body and I loved it. Then he grabbed my hand and put it in his pants... i stroked and grabbed but I don't know if he want's me to just feel around and explore or for me to just give him a hand job... I'm confused on what to do but I don't want to ask him what he wants me to do. Are there signs I can look for to see if he wants me to just explore or do some more? (link)
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Hun, you're 14. Don't you think you're a little young for that?
Well... It's your choice.
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