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I'm helplessly in love with ....
Billie Joe Armstrong. I know-yesterday, he turned 41, and I'm just a teenager. I know every thing about him, and Green Day and Sweet Child and ... Billie. I'm not asking for advice on how to stop liking Green Day since I spent more than $500 of Green Day/Billie stuff just this year, plus having every song of him possible, plus tickets to see his AI show in my area soon but ... is there anything wrong with me? I'm sorry if I disturb you, like, I know he's married, but I've had these dreams and all kinds of ... oh god, I'm ranting, I'll stop. Should I tell my parents, since they already know I like Green Day and all, and my friends like Green Day too. I feel stuck. I have a journal filled with Billie Joe Armstrong drawings and lyrics and desires and entries of why I like him and all ... btw, I'm a girl, just thirteen, and anything would be good. Thank you.
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I love Green Day too, but not that way.
I'm sort of overly obsessed with my idol like you are... It's completely normal to be obsessed with Green Day. You'll [hopefully] get over it eventually :)
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i understand,i love green day too.but not like that.......its just a phasse youll get over it.btw if your 13 whereja get 500 dollaars?thats impressivvve
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When I was 13, I was in love with Dexter Holland of The Offspring. Like, seriously in love. For some perspective, he's my father's age and I'm 25 now. You're not alone in this sort of thing.
Obsessions are part of being 13. I can pretty much guarantee you that by the time you hit 16 or 17, you'll have calmed down a lot. There's no harm in fantasizing about a famous person, so long as you recognize that nothing will come of it. So enjoy, and keep those journals to giggle about when you're my age :)
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Theres nothing wrong with you! In fact its very normal to have a crush on someone like that at your age.
I dont see what would be the point in telling your parents in detail about your dreams with him? Idk, but honestly its just the kind of thing you keep to your self.
What may help is going to one of his gigs/concerts or even (!) meeting him in some way as a VIP? This may calm your obsession down abit.
If you're going to be a proper fan girl, then you deserve to meet him after putting so much money into the Greenday fanchise!
Its totally innocent to have a crush on some one like him, but also I think its important you recognise its all just fantazies and will new happen. What you're actually doing by relating yourself to someone as famous as him is boosting your ego/confidence. Whilst this is ok, you need to find other ways to boost your confidence than Billie Joe Armstrong. Because, with as with any belieber or direcioner out there, there will come a time when they are happily married themselves and just laugh at their little fan girl antics when they were 13. SO yeh start a new hobby or do something else to make you feel as good as he does, so that you dont hit rock bottom when you cease to fancy him anymore.
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