I'm a 15 year old female.I'm still a virgin. My boyfriend and I were messing around and he cummed after he jerked off, and he touched a little bit his cum. 5 or 10 minutes later his hands were dry and he touched a few objects and then tried to finger me, he only got up to my clit when I realized he had touched his cum before and didn't wash his hands so i smacked his hand away. Me and him have been freaking out all this week and I'm experiencing mood swings, a milky discharge, constipation, and I'm waiting on my period but I have it irregularly. Could I be pregnant from? it's only been a week.
rainhorse68 answered Monday March 4 2013, 3:52 am: Bacteria or viruses can exist on hands or objects which appear perfectly dry and clean, and can even be carried in minute water droplets (as you'd guess, someone with flu sneezes near you, catching it is a real possibility). Sperm, I assure you can ONLY live in those blobs of warm semen. If his hands were dry it's difficult to see how you could possibly be pregnant. It is possible to introduce semen and the sperm it contains into the vagina without a couple ' actually having sex' as it were. And it'll thrive in that warm, moist place...because it's meant to. So make sure he wipes his hands dry with a tissue or something, and you too if it's on yours before he fingers you. Or before you pop a finger inside yourself if that's relevant. There's no point spoiling the fun, and making yourself worry afterwards by taking even a tiny risk. Specially one you can take out of the picture with a few tissues mate! [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Saturday March 2 2013, 12:01 pm: Is it possible? Yes. You do not need to have sexual intercourse to get pregnant. What the two of you did was risky and I'm sure that you'll be more careful in the future. Is it likely that you're pregnant, though? No. Your body is having a reaction to the stress you're experiencing. During a "pregnancy scare", when you think that you might be pregnant by accident, you may become so stressed that you miss your period and experience other symptoms because of the stress, not because you're pregnant. Try to relax a little. You're probably not pregnant and even if you are, there's nothing you can do about it now. In another week, go to the store and get a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease. I believe that most of them are effective 2 weeks after the incident. While I'm sure the two of you will be way more careful in the future, if something like this ever happens again, get a Plan B pill. That way, you won't have to worry so much. The plan B pill isn't an abortion pill, it just prevents pregnancy. Some people consider it to be an abortion pill and believe that it can cause an abortion, though, so if you have strong beliefs or religious convictions regarding that, do a little research on the Plan B pill before taking it. Really, though, you shouldn't need it because you're going to be more careful from now on right? Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Ashley3619 answered Friday March 1 2013, 10:47 pm: If you didn't have sex then no. You're not pregnant. Besides, speaking as someone who has gone through pregnancy, you wouldn't notice symptoms after only a week. Mood swings could be caused by the stress you're feeling over worrying about being pregnant. As for discharge, it's actually pretty normal. It's sort of the bodys way of keeping things clear down there. It's the body pushing out dead cells and any bacteria. It's possible you're noticing MORE discharge because your body will produce more if you are sexually aroused. As for constipation, that can be caused by any number of things. Certain foods can cause it, stress can cause it. Chocolate is a big one for some people. Hope I helped :) [ Ashley3619's advice column | Ask Ashley3619 A Question ]
VirgoPrincess answered Friday March 1 2013, 9:41 pm: I don't believe you could be pregnant because his semen would have to shoot deeper than just inside the vagina to be able to stick to your uterus walls and attach itself to one of your eggs. Wait at least a week after your period due date to see if it comes, and if it does not and your symptoms are still the same, I would highly suggest you going to a doctor, or clinic for a pregnancy test. Don't waste your money on an at home test. Go to a professional. And if it turns out that you are not pregnant, make sure you ask them about your constipation, and for advice about your irregular period. Also, mood swings are quite normal for girls your age! Who knows, maybe your stress is the reason why your period hasn't come up yet. It could be right around the corner. Just be patient and calm. [ VirgoPrincess's advice column | Ask VirgoPrincess A Question ]
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