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Location: Canada
Age: 21
Member Since: December 30, 2010
Answers: 12
Last Update: April 8, 2013
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i had sex five weeks ago and gain tweenty pounds and am craving things like hotsauce on pancakes and alot of picles im late on my period and im regular tell mewhat u think (link)
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Cravings can be caused by stress and if you are worried about being pregnant, you would be stressed. Also, symptoms aren't likely to appear that quickly. Weight gain for example. When I was pregnant, I didn't start putting on any real weight until my third trimester. I was showing but not gaining too much. Also, 20 pounds in the first month, would not be caused by the baby as it would be too tiny. Please note, I am not saying you are fat. but I do think you should go to a doctor if you are that worried. Stress can also cause a delay in your period.
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we are young teens and in te next few days are gonna have sex and im scared after we do it he is going to leave me what should i do (link)
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I had the same fear. There are some things to consider here. Are you going to have sex because HE wants to? Did he bring it up or did you? How long have you known each other? I'm sorry to be asking more questions but those are things to take into consideration. I had sex for the first time when I was 17. I am now married to the same man at 21. I was scared to death that if I slept wit him he would leave me. The only reason I finally got over the fear is because he never pushed me. He waited an entire year before I was finally ready. Even when I told him I was, he sat down with me and asked me to make sure it was what I wanted. He told me he didn't want me to do it just to make him happy. You don't want to look back on your first time and regret it so make sure if you go through with it it's because you actually want to and know he respects you whatever choice you make.
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im 16/f and im in year 11
so basicly there is this guy a few of my classes and and i alway catch him looking at me but smiles and turns away when he sees i have noticed him. Recently he has started to talk to me, he always comes to sit by me as well (he gets really close, i mean really close close). We have become alright friends and he's even me a nickname.
However, hes started to ignore he hasnt replied my email and he always does. im not sure but could it be because i wasn't paying attention to him when he was talking and i kinda, might have ignored him . im not sure... i dont think i have done anything else that would cause him to ignore me
but does he like me? and why is he ignoring me?? (link)
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He probably does like you. If he does, it probably took a lot of courage for him to speak up. Maybe he's not sure what else to say to you. Maybe he thought he was boring you. It's possible he assumed you weren't interested in him.
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ok, so I'm 11 and a girl (seventh grade)
and a few months ago, earlier in the school year, I got in a HUGE physical fight with my best-friend. Needless to say, my parents hate her. But now we have made amends and ae best-friends again... in secret. How do I tell my mother and when?? I'm afraid my mother will get mad at me and resrict me from talking to my friend. :(
Thank you. (link)
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Well sadly, it is possible that she will be upset with you but chances are, she will find out eventually and if it's not from you she'll probably be more angry. Your best bet is to just come out and explain to her that you have both sorted it out and that's the end of it.
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I'm a 15 year old female.I'm still a virgin. My boyfriend and I were messing around and he cummed after he jerked off, and he touched a little bit his cum. 5 or 10 minutes later his hands were dry and he touched a few objects and then tried to finger me, he only got up to my clit when I realized he had touched his cum before and didn't wash his hands so i smacked his hand away. Me and him have been freaking out all this week and I'm experiencing mood swings, a milky discharge, constipation, and I'm waiting on my period but I have it irregularly. Could I be pregnant from? it's only been a week. (link)
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If you didn't have sex then no. You're not pregnant. Besides, speaking as someone who has gone through pregnancy, you wouldn't notice symptoms after only a week. Mood swings could be caused by the stress you're feeling over worrying about being pregnant. As for discharge, it's actually pretty normal. It's sort of the bodys way of keeping things clear down there. It's the body pushing out dead cells and any bacteria. It's possible you're noticing MORE discharge because your body will produce more if you are sexually aroused. As for constipation, that can be caused by any number of things. Certain foods can cause it, stress can cause it. Chocolate is a big one for some people. Hope I helped :)
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what can i say to people talk behind my back? (link)
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Your best bet is to say nothing. People like that aren't worth wasting your time on. Ignore it.
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I'm sick and tired of them both! my best friend is sexting my ex! she lies to my face about EVERYTHING! i wanna kill myself! i already hate my life and we have been fighting more this yr than ever! Idk what 2 do.. someone please help...
P.S. there is A LOT more drama but i didnt feel like putting it.. 2 upset..
so please help me know what 2 do! (link)
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Killing yourself is NOT the answer. It never is. If your 'best friend' is lying to you she isn't much of a friend but if the friendship is that important to you, try sitting down with her. If she doesn't at least give you a good reason for lying to you, then maybe it's time to find a new friend. As for your ex doing it well, he is your EX. So he isn't under your rule. I know it's hard to know your ex is involved in any way with a friend but the pain will fade.
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ok everytime my gf fingers me she has long fingers lol,i pee all over the place, it doesnt feel like i need to pee it just feels really good but pee alays comes out, weve smelled it and it smells like pee. what is the problem bc its very annoying! (link)
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Actually, there is no problem. Some women do pee when they get sexually excited.
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Im 18/f and I've had sex with three guys; each of them different in their own ways; and the thing is, I have NEVER orgasmed during sex, or even nutted; Is something wrong with me? Me and my boyfriend had sex for 5 hours on and off; 2 hours without stopping, and I didn't finish once.
Why is that? All my friends talk about how they orgasm all the time, and how amazing it feels. I wanna know. I feel like a failure, because I have never finished during intercourse. Help.
*I've only cum'd once, and that was while I was getting fingerd, but never sex. (link)
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Actually, that is pretty common. A lot of women go their whole lives without one orgasm during sex.
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ok so ive kind of come to conclusion that the kiss is gunna come natural (hopefully) but my propblem is leading up to the kiss im gunna freak out and be nervouse i just know it! please help! give me some ideas to get over it! THANKYOUU (link)
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Take a deep breath and keep in mind, more than likely the guy will be just as nervous as you. Even if he is more 'experienced' than you, he has no idea what it will be like with YOU. Just relax and enjoy it.
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boyfriend and I broke up (he broke up with me) 6 months ago... I was devastated, I was madly in love with him. he still contacted me saying he still loved me and stuff like that. I asked whether he wanted to get back together and he didn't have an answer for me. I chose not to remain friends as it hurt a lot. 2 months ago I started seeing not dating another guy, my ex obviously found out and said to me "well you might start dating that guy, break up with him and then get back together with me, who knows" why is he saying that? (link)
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People want what they can't have. He sees you've moved on so he wants you back. And sadly, he probably has fun crushing people constantly
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Me and this guy I know have know each other for a couple of years, and we started dating a couple of months ago (about 8), but two weeks ago I lost my virginity to him. I didn't regret it and it was one of the best moments of my life, and he didn't push me or anything. The thing is (yes I know I'm going to get bashed a lot now) is he's 19 and I'm 15. I know you are going to say it was wrong but it felt right to us. The real problem is I told my best friend about me losing my virginity to him and she totally flipped. When me and him started dating, she was really wary and told me it wasn't a good Idea and he was only using me, but now 8 months on we're still together and he never pressured me once. He,obviously being a boy was ready, but we only had sex after I told him I was ready. Anyway after I told my friend about losing my virginity, she basically shouted at me for about 20mins straight calling me a b**** and some other charming words, and then said that if I ever get pregnant or if my boyfriend dumps me, she wants nothing to do with it, and she will only say I told you so.
I don't know what to do now I feel like a worthless piece of crap after what she said, and know that if anything was to happen, my own best friend wouldn't help me?
What should I do? I don't want to lose wither of them.
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I went through the same thing. My (now) husband is 13 years older than me and my friend found out we were together she called him a pedophile and said he was using me for sex. Ironically we didn't have sex until a year after we started dating. I didn't see my friend for years and now we're talking again. Why? Because she finally realized he wasn't a bad guy. In other words, if YOU are happy and have no regrets, that's all that matters and if your friend is really a friend, she will eventually deal and apologize for what she said.
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