Is this a good way to kiss my teacher and be able to get away with it?
Question Posted Wednesday January 16 2013, 6:24 pm
I am deeply in love with my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is such a beautiful and perfect lady. She is 28 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time and I can't stand the thought of not being wit her. I was thinking of one day staying after class at the end of the day for help and then when no one is around just grab her and kiss her on the lips and caress her body. I will also have one of my friends outside near the door so he can look out if anyone is coming. IF she tells anyone about it I will just say she did it to me and they will likely believe me since I am the young one and still considered a child so what could she possibly do? I hear just a claim from a student would immediately cause a teachers career to be over. And would she really want to spend money on lawyers and crap with her teacher salary? Also she is not married. I think this is a fool proof plan. I wish it didn't have to be this way but I am too obsessed with her to the point where it is affecting my life and can't stand the thought of not doing something with her, it is killing me
Razhie answered Wednesday January 16 2013, 10:22 pm: What you are considering doing is called sexual assault. It's a crime. The police could be called. It is not okay to grab someone, kiss them and grope them. It's assault.
The fact that you consider lying about it after the fact is morally reprehensible. You don't love her. If you loved her you wouldn't ever consider assaulting her, and then blackmailing her with it.
You nee help. This is an obsession and its clear it could now lead you to illegal and immoral behaviour.
Don't act like a criminal, a creep and a crazy person. Get help for your unhealthily obsession. Talk to a doctor, a therapist or a counsellor. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Wednesday January 16 2013, 8:25 pm: You are not in love with your teacher. Being in love with someone means wanting the best for them, and you clearly have no interest in what she wants.
What you are talking about is sexually assaulting your teacher, then blackmailing her after the fact. That's highly illegal and highly immoral.
The biggest problem here is that you feel entitled to your teacher. She is a human being, and has a choice with regards to her body and who she shares it with. For you to make that decision on her behalf is criminal. I don't care how much you want her, that doesn't justify sexual assault.
Stop this plotting right now, and seek help. Your thinking is messed up, and you need someone to help you work through your issues. It's fine to have a little crush on a teacher (goodness knows I've had a few) but it's not okay to knowingly plan the ruin of her life just so you can get your jollies. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday January 16 2013, 8:22 pm: I do not know how much more clear we all have to be with these questions....
Your teacher has authority over you and you are a minor. Its wrong to have relations other then Teacher/student. A relationship with your teacher could lead to her getting fired and face prison time and you could be looking at time in juvenile.
What you just described is sexual assault and considering your age you could be tried as an adult and face serious charges. Your thinking is fucked up and you need to get help asap.
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