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how to convince my virgin girl friend to have Sex with me?
Hello,
I wanna hv sex wit my virgin g/f how to i convince hr to hv sex with me, Coz i really want it.
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If you care about her, let her make up her own mind. A lot of girls who want to remain virgins do so because they are religious and in religion, her virginity is meant ONLY for her future husband. Even if she doesn't believe in God, than her virginity is still something very special that is not meant to just throw away because of urges or pressure that is put on her. If you want to have sex with her this bad, than I can imagine that she is a very pretty girl. She could likely have any guy she wanted and most guys might try very hard, but so far, she has continued to save herself. Rejecting boys efforts to have sex is not easy, especially when you've been in a relationship for a while and he's putting pressure on you the way you're talking about doing to your girlfriend. I wouldn't judge her if she did have sex and once she did, she wouldn't be any different than most girls these days. But since she hasn't so far, she has a gift to give her future husband that most brides will not. She should be proud of herself for this and you shouldn't want to take it away from her all because of your urges and what you want. Also, how would you feel if you two did have sex and she got pregnant? I got pregnant with two of my children while on birth control, so don't assume that there is any guaranteed protection. This is a HUGE decision. It could affect the rest of your life, so don't be so quick to make it and pressure her to do it if she doesn't want to.
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You do not say how old you are so allow me to educate you on sex between the sexes.
First and foremost; you never, ever, ever convince anyone to have sex with you. Doing so is considered badgering, could also be considered sexual harassment and even rape. The last two could put you in serious trouble with the law regardless of how old you are.
Sex or sexual intercourse is something that happens between two loving ADULTS when the time is right for BOTH of them. If only one is wanting to have sex and badgers or in any way causes the other to have sex against their will or better judgement it is RAPE. That is the absolute fact of the matter.
If you were to convince your girlfriend to let you have sex with her and she later regrets it. She can say you forced her as she didn't want to. Convincing is a form of force as you are trying to get someone to do something they would rather not do. When it comes to sex force equals rape.
Also sex does not always mean love. For young teenage males sex usually means lust. Teenage males have a hard time separating the two. For women, adult or teenager, sex is always a very intimate act. They need to feel safe, comfortable and most of all loved not lusted after.
There are other more suitable and safer ways for you to relieve the sexual tensions you are experiencing with out badgering your girlfriend to do something she is unwilling to do. My advice is to stop badgering her and take advantage of what you can do for yourself to relieve your sexual tensions.
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Never ever ever CONVIENCE anyone to have sex with you. If they aren't just as open and willing to participate as you then wait. They will regret it and possibly end up hating you causing you to regret it. If they are ready and willing.... trust me you will know!!!
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It doesn't matter if you want it or she wants it.. You both have to want it. If you have to try to convince her to have sex with you, than she's not ready and you're not being very fair. Both of you should feel comfortable with it and ready to take that step in a relationship, not just one of you. I stress the word BOTH greatly, because you have to BOTH agree to this without convincing... It should just happen naturally, not forced by convincing. Sex is a big deal for girls especially, and it takes some of us more time to want to do it than others. So let her think about it, get used to the idea of it, make her feel comfortable and safe, but don't try to persuade her to do something she might not be ready to do, especially if she's still a virgin. You can talk to her about it and see how she feels, but just talk about it for now, get the idea out there and let whatever happens, happen. Sex can come with a lot of consequences you and her probably aren't equipped to deal with like pregnancy and such, so if you BOTH decide to d it, remember to be safe. No glove, no love.
Hope I helped ! xxo
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You cannot convince anyone of doing anything at all if they do not want to. All you can do is let your girlfriend know your desire and let her make up her own mind and accept whatever her decision is. That's it.
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