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please help cant get over sexul abuse
Okay well does any-one know of a website that is free forever and has phycoligists that I can talk to 24/7 I was sexualy abused by my brother in-law and I don't know how to talk about it.by the way I'm 12 and he started it when I was 9 turning 10.I really need help urgently please
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You are very smart and brave for coming forward and seeking help. You need to tell and keep on telling until you find someone who will listen to you and get you the help you need. It's really disappointing and hurtful that your mum is being unprotective but it's not that uncommon unfortunately. Mine was the same :( I wish I had been as brave as you and gotten help when I was a lot younger. The abuse has effected me very badly and wrecked much of my life because of that. I was 36 before i got the help i needed. So please don't give up! Perhaps a teacher, a friends mum or an aunt? There will be someone. What has happened to you is very serious and NONE of what happened was your fault. The abuser is ALWAYS to blame. You were a baby, you still are. He knew exactly what he was doing. Your town will have a rape crisis centre that will have free councilling. There are lots and lots of people who can and will help you. If you cannot find anyone you know to listen to you I would phone them. He is dangerous, guys like that usually gone on to hurt other girls. He should be held accountable for his actions, and you must ensure your safety.
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Dear Victim,
ugh. you know i hate reading questions like this so much because i think it really sucks being so young and not knowing what to do about something like this. Any sexual abuse victim will tell you one of the hardest parts about it is telling someone, admitting you need help for it, and not blaming yourself. now if you haven't told your parents... it's time. you are old to know this is wrong and you need help. and confronting your abuser or at least being able to confront the situation of what happened is part of the process to healing. but if you have just tell them you need counseling. they have counselors that deal with this area specifically.
just remember... sexual abuse is literally one of the worse things to go through because you can never fully get over it, but it will make you stronger. wiser.
good luck. please hit me up if you need anything else.
Sincerely,
A person who allowed herself to once be the "victim"
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You have to tell someone what happened preferably your parents. It wasn't right and normally people who do the abuse don't quit. He may be doing it to other girls who don't have the ability to speak up. Brother-in-law or not he's got a problem.
A web site although providing words of comfort cannot replace the kind of support you need from a professional. I know that kind of help isn't free but should be in the U.S. as it is in all other western countries. You need to tell your parents and find a psychiatrist or therapist who can help you move forward.
The guy's a creep and an enormous prick and pedophile for doing this so don't protect him any longer by not talking. Sing like a canary because it will help you and other females around him. He needs help.
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Rainn.org is a free website where you can get free help 24/7. RAINN stands for rape, abuse, incest national network. You can have a live chat with a professional or call their toll free hotline 24/7: 1800.656.HOPE.
I was sexually abused a few months ago, and they've really helped me and given me great tips on what to do when I have a flashback, like standing up and putting my feet on the ground. It makes me feel secure and protected.
I am so sorry you were abused. I know how that feels, and it is so so awful. If you need any support, I am always here for you. You can send a message to my inbox anytime, and I'll get back to you. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon. You really don't deserve this.
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