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My boyfriend wants to take my virginity im 14 and he 15. Should i let my boyfriend have my virginity or not?
Well my boyfriend wants to take my virginity im 14 and he 15. Should i let him or no ? I feel were to young but he says i dont havet to if i dont want to but i dont know what to do.
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if you lose your virginity at fourteen it will open up your deepest emotions up and a 15 yr old boy is in highschool and more than likely once his reputation improves he will be having sex with more girls than just you and your heart will be crushed and it will take years for you to have self confidence and happiness again and once you go to highschools other boys will see your weakness in your low self esteem and they will prey on you, and yur feelings will still be so crushed still by your last bf that you will let them take advantage of you and next thing you know you will be getting passed around the school for sex and will be known as a ho when all you wanted to do was fell good about yourself again.
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Well, since you feel your too young you shouldn't. You obviously do not feel ready to lose your virginity, therefore in the future you are going to regret it. I say wait until you are older and mature enough. Plus you want to lose it to someone you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Your boyfriends right if you don't want to you don't have to. Don't let him pressure you into anything your not ready for.
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if you are not ready to have sex then you shouln't you are still very young and before you have sex you should know all the facts about it. like std's and pregnancy different types of protections. what do you do if you think your pregnant. take all these things into consideration. not to mention that sex comes with many many emotions its always special to be so in love with the person then have sex with them. its something you share with that one person!
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Your virginity is the most precious gift you can give to someone. To give it up at such a young age is not right. While your bodies are capable of adult sexual relations from a maturity stand point neither of you are truly ready for adult sexual relations.
Right now most boy his age want a girls virginity not for love but for lust. Boys his age feel they earn there manhood by the number of girls they have sex with and the number of girls whose virginity they can claim. You can chose to believe me or not. But as a former teenage boy I can attest to that fact. This is something that has probably gone on since Adam met Eve.
I would suggest that you not give up your virginity at this time; not just because you are too young. But because of the last words you said "i don't know what to do". This alone says NO Not KNOW. I'M NOT READY.
Below is a link to a WEBSITE I found sometime ago for other young lady's with similar questions. I think you would do well to look at this website before making any decision about having adult sexual relations and losing your virginity.
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Your boyfriend is right.You don't have to if you don't want to.First of all,losing your virginity is one the biggest things you're ganna do in your life.So when you lose your virginity,you want to lose it to someone you love,to someone you know will always be there for you,to someone you can live without.You have to rememeber that speacial day,where that speacial moment happened with that one speacial person.So my advice to you is to think it through.If you don't know what you want,then wait.Lose your virginity when you know what you want,and when you're sure.Goodluck,and don't rush yourself.If he truely loves you then he will give you all of the time you need.
Hope I helped :)
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