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My Older Cousin was touching me
13/f
I was with my cousin today hes 18 and he was touching in the wrong places. I told him to stop, but he said that he knows I like it. Now I feel really dirty what should i do.
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Ok so I'm 12 and my brother in law did and is doing the exact same thing and I haven't told anyone yet either BUT I am thinking about telling my teacher. You must report him because he can be doing this to a lot of other children to and he needs to be stoped so please tell someone older that you can trut
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I know how you feel. I was sexually abused at 13 as well. Its hard enough having it done to you let alone a family member doing it. I waited years before I told anyone and I really regret it. I think you should talk to your parents. You can even talk to your counselor at school first. Its sometimes easier talking to someone that you don't really know first. I want you to remember it is not your fault not one bit and there is support groups please take advantage of them. I didn't tell anyone and ended up not caring and ended up pregnant at 15. Get some help hun. It will get better.
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As I am an adult please accept my sincere apology that this has happened to you and understand that you did nothing wrong. Your cousin is a child molester. If he did this to you he is doing it to other children and he must be stopped.
What you need to do is tell your parents. If not both mom and dad at least tell mom. I can understand you may be embarrassed but please remember you have done nothing wrong.
If for some reason you feel you cannot tell your parents then tell a trusted teacher. You can also call 911 yourself and tell the police. You know no one is suppose to touch you in your private places.
This boy may be your cousin, being your cousin doesn't give him the right to touch you anywhere without your permission or in your private places. By law you are not old enough to give him permission to touch you in your private places so he cannot use that as a defense as to why he touched you. I know you didn't give him permission but he might say you did to defend himself so be prepared.
No matter what he says he is in the wrong and he needs to face the consequences of his actions. You have been harmed in a manner that has legal consequences. This is up to you and your parents to decide. I know he is family but if he is touching you, who else is he touching. Your parents need to call the police and report him. Your cousin in touching you is a child molester.
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You need to tell an adult that you trust. You did absolutely nothing wrong, he is a sick person. No one should ever put you in that position! Please, please tell an adult! Big hugs!! Let me know if there's ever anything you need to talk about! you can email me at speedlebug@yahoo.com, promise I will reply!
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Report it
Tell your parents. That is disgusting and very very very wrong of him to do. That is sexual abuse/molestation. You need to tell someone, An adult preferably a parent and let them handle it. Please do not let the dirty bastard get away with it, You didn't do anything wrong. HE IS WRONG 100% and you need to report him for what he did.
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