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What do girls like in a man?
I just wanna understand how women look at guys and what qualities they look for.
Physical qualities like how they look and how strong/attractive they are. How much does money matter? Do you like guys who are more aggressive or laid back? Do you want a man to be territorial and maybe even jealous over you? Protective?
Do you like guys who are more mature? How much does sex matter? What kind of style do you like in guys? All that kind of stuff.
Everyones different so I like to hear all different answers no matter what age.
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The first thing I look at a guy is the way he treats others. They say bad boys are better but in my opinion, only btches dig for that. Next is his attitude, almost the same as the first one but this time, it includes the habits and how he makes moves on me. Third is the appearance. Guys with good hygiene and heavenly smiles are the best. Abs and deep velvety voice are bonuses. I take a good look also of the age difference, but others think of age as just a number. Remember, age doesn't matter in some people so check on those to make sure. If a guy passes all of those, totally date-able.
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Every girl is different for what they look for in a man!
Physical qualities like how they look and how strong/attractive they are?
Physical qualities are a bonus it's how the guy is as a person and how he treats people. I'm all about the personality the looks are just extra. I'm lucky I found a guy who has bother a great personality and good looks :)
How much does money matter?
Money isn't everything but I want a guy to be able to take care of himself. It's nice to get presents once in awhile but the important thing is, is that a man needs to take care of himself.
Do you like guys who are more aggressive or laid back?
I like the laid back kind of guys. My boyfriend is a VERY laid back kind of guy. I can talk to him about almost anything and he's very understanding. i feel like a guy who is aggressive would always be so quick to accuse me of something I'm doing wrong.
Do you want a man to be territorial and maybe even jealous over you? Protective?
I guess to a point, I mean I want a guy who trusts me to hang out with my friends whoa re guys. I don't want him to be upset if I'm talking to another guy. The guy should know that I'm with him and he should be comfortable. That's not to say that I don't want a guy who is protective when he needs to be. If something happens I want to know that, that guy will be there for me. My boyfriend is comfortable with me hanging out with other guys and he trusts me which is EXTREMELY important in a relationship :)
Do you like guys who are more mature?
I like a guy who can be serious when he needs to be serious. I like a guy who can have fun and have a great sense of humor too.
How much does sex matter?
Sex isn't everything, it's about how much you care about the person and how much they care about you.
What kind of style do you like in guys?
I'd rather have a guy be himself than try and be something that I want. I like punk guys. My boyfriend is nothing like a punk I would categorize him as a prep. I don't mind because that's who he is and I love him anyways. I love him because he doesn't change himself for anyone.
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Everybody is different. It depends on the specific girl. Personally, I prefer guys who have a sense a humor, somebody I can hold up long conversations with, somebody who has stuff in common with me yet is still completely different, someone who is as smart as me but not smarter, somebody I can see often, most of the time, somebody who is somewhat attractive, someone who isn't abusive in ANY way, someone who won't force me to do some thing I don't want to do (this is extremely important to a lot of girls), a guy that will show me affection, hang with me in public, deal with my crap on my bad days, mature but at the same time, not too serious, and most importantly a guy that loves me for who I am and treats me well. A few of these are things that most girls look for like the last few. I hope this was helpful.
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As you said, everyone is different. All girls have different tastes. This is really a result of biology, as women seek partners with a different biological make up than their own, in order to produce healthy children. Take every preference listed with a grain of salt.
I'm an 18 year old female. I'm generally attracted to taller men, usually 6'0 and up. Physical strength doesn't matter too much to me. I like guys who are thin or buff; I'm not particularly attracted to the teddy bear type, but if you are larger plenty of girls love that! Money doesn't really matter to me, as long as I don't have to pay for everything. I like guys who are laid-back rather than aggressive. Showing aggression can make a woman fear for her own safety. Jealousy and protectiveness are major turn offs. I'm a human, not a piece of property. I can make my own decision on who I'd like to associate with, male or female.
Maturity matters to a certain extent. I like a guy who had a great sense of humor, but knows when to act like an adult.
I'm confused by your question "How much does sex matter?" In what context? If you mean would a women still date you if you chose to save yourself for marriage, I'd advise seeking partners who have those same morals in mind. Most women who are already sexually active would like to remain that way. Partners will have different libidos though and the desire for sex is extremely variable.
I like frat bros and preppy guys. Give me a guy in a snap-back or a button up, and I'm set. It's probably my college mind-set talking.
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It's all going to depend on the girl, but here's my answer. I'm 24 and married.
Physical: I'm 5'8", so I prefer a guy who's pretty tall. However, I had a pretty successful relationship with a guy who was just shy of 5'2". Strength and looks aren't too important to me, they're just a bonus. I've dated guys from all sorts of races, body types, etc. My husband is 6'3" and very handsome, so I lucked out there!
How much money they have isn't so important as how they use it. I have less respect for a guy who has a tonne of money and tosses it around on expensive crap than I do for a guy who has a little money but makes it go a long way and saves for the future. It becomes important in a relationship because when you run into hard times (like we have in the past) you need to be able to make it through. When you run into good times, you need to be able to spend responsibly so you have something in case of bad times.
I don't like the polarity between aggressive and laid back. How about someone with ambition and drive who can kick back and chill every once in a while?
As for territorial, jealous and protective? I told my husband flat out when he met me that none of that crap would be accepted on my part. I have a lot of male friends, and I believe that when a guy is jealous and protective he doesn't respect or trust me. I warned him that any jealous behaviour would lead to a swift punch to the teeth.
Maturity is good, but sometimes you need to know how to loosen up and have fun. Sex is important, but compatibility is more important than any particular combination of attributes.
I prefer a sort of clean, professional style. I like my husband best in argyle sweaters and nice jeans. Yowza :)
I know you didn't ask for this, but I'd have to say the most important personality traits my husband has (and the ones I looked for when I was single) are a sense of humour, intelligence, and caring. He also turns to mush around small dogs, so you know he's got to be a good person.
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My personal opinion.. I have 2 types.
one is the bigger type. not huge but not skinny.
the other is a thinner version but still not like 'emo' scrawny. I prefer a guy who is taller than me. and hair color or eye color doesn't really matter. I like someone who isn't fully mature but isn't rediculously immature. I think sex is good for some one you have been with for a while. i don't like to jump into bed after a few weeks.
Hope this helps:)
P.S. I'm 21. female.:P
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