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secret love child
I think im pregnant with a person that ive been seeing for a year. He has been married to someone else for 11 1/2 out of 12 months.. Does he have the right to know or can I just not tell him and get rid of it?
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You don't have to tell him anything. Get rid of it, take the lesson about getting involved with married men (i.e. don't!), and move on. Don't let this one mistake affect your whole life.
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I totally respect your decision for an abortion as it can be hard raising a child alone, however I do think you should give the father a chance. I think it is something you need to discuss rather than just go through with it. Arrange a meeting with him and explain your situation and feelings to him. It isn't so much about his right to know, more his right to an opinion of what is the best option for you both and your unborn child.
I would discuss whether or not to go through with the pregnancy, if yes then discuss his involvement with the preparation and birth, how often he sees the child when he or she is born and so on.
A child takes two of you to make and therefore what happens next should be decided between you.
I can imagine it is difficult if he is married and I am in no position to judge you morally as that is not the issue here, but as the mother of his unborn child he does have a responsibility to you.
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I don't think you should get rid of it.
Its not far to the baby, that your going to abort it. Your the one that had sex with a married man, and got pregnant, you shouldn't harm an innocent life because of your careless mistake.
If anything, you said that they haven't even been married a year. I think you should tell him. The marriage isn't long, therefore anything can happen. You never know, he may want to be with you and raise this child with you. You'll only know if you try. Now, it would be a little different if he has been married for years, and had 2-3 kids with his wife, but that isn't the case here.
I really hope it all works out!<3
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This is entirely up too you
I'm going to be blunt
As a married man there is a possibility that he may not want to take responsibility for the child, The man is married and if his wife ever found out there would be hell to pay on his end.
Married men and affairs just don't mix
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It's your decision. If you want to tell him, tell him. If not, then don't. You make your own decision. Still not completely aware of why your seeing a married man... =/
xoxo,
dottie4
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