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Is it bad to still like your ex and u have a boyfriend?
i do love my boyfriend but i still like my ex and well it doesnt help much when your ex is at your school and rides your bus! I know i have boyfriend and yes ill get over him but right now hes in my heart right with my boyfriend!
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My ex bf felt like this in our relationship, so he ended it to get back with his ex-but it didn't last as his feelings changed.
My point is that as humans we want what we can't have. You're in a relationship so you can't 'have' your ex bf now, which makes you want him more.
Heres the thing-if you go back to your ex and treat this relationship as a 'rebound' relationship, then things may not work out, which would make you look like a fool.
You need to get over your ex in order to give this new relationship a chance-it wouldn't be fair on your bf. To get over him, write down a list of things that you didn't like in the relationship, and a list of things that you love much more in your relationship with your bf now.
As time progresses and your current relationship gets more serious, it'll be esier to get over your ex.
If you feel like you want to get back with your ex, then make sure you're fully aware of the consequences and dilemmas that could occur if things don't work out as you wanted them to.
Good luck :)
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As long as you are committed 100% emotionally and physically to your boyfriend and you aren't holding anything back from him then this is no big deal. I believe it is possible to love more than one person at a time. You just have to handle that fact responsibly and considerately.
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If you think you can get over him soon, then you should be fine with your current boyfriend. If you're still gonna be hung up over your ex, you haven't moved on and it's not fair to you or your boyfriend.
In a way, it is kinda bad but if you can control it to where you will get over him, then it will be better but if not, it's not fair to stay with your boyfriend until you are over your ex.
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If you are still hung up on someone else then you haven't truly moved on. It isn't fair to your boyfriend to be with him if you still have feelings for someone else, Is it bad? Sort of. Imagine your boyfriend being with you when he still had feelings for his ex. It's hurtful but I suppose it all depends on how much you let those feelings effect you.
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It sounds like right now your heart is with your ex, more than it may be with your boyfriend..
yes it is bad.. but as long as you focus on your boyfriend.. that you should be fine. :)
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