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sexual harassment


Question Posted Saturday October 29 2011, 8:00 pm

Theres this boy in my class that is so disgusting and peverted.He is always harassing me and doesn't know how to keep his hands to himself.He would touch me wrong then say oops i'm sorry.He would say things like I know you like me becuase last night you were loving it when we had sex.I've never had sex and I dont plan to what is wrong with him and hes made cry before becuase he did something to me that I can never say.Please help.What do I do about him?
-Alexa


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thelaura answered Sunday October 30 2011, 2:48 pm:
I'm not sure if you understand the severity of this problem. You need to tell someone immediately to put and end to it.

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adviceman49 answered Sunday October 30 2011, 12:18 pm:
This is serious and requires that you report this to school authorities immediately, as well as you parents. Sexual harassment and bullying are two of the biggest attention getter's at this time to school authorities. Most if not all schools have a zero tolerance policy towards this problem.


If this is happening in a number of course and in the hallways and lunch room between classes then inform the Principal. Inform your parents as well. They have the option of going to school authorities or asking your local police or Sheriff's department for help.


You have the right to attend school without being harassed or bullied. This boy may think he is being funny. I can assure you that he is not and hopefully his parent will feel the same way. He's teased or harass you to the point of crying this should have told him you didn't feel he was being funny and should have stopped. Now he will have to learn the hard way.


You have done nothing wrong and do not have to prove anything. So tell your parents and report him to school authorities.

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GemmalGD answered Sunday October 30 2011, 7:11 am:
This is a serious problem and you must tell someone. If you don't want to tell a parent/guardian then tell a teacher in school and then you will have someone keeping an eye on him. Try not to let what he does upset you or make you cry, try to avoid him and if that seems to be impossible then you may have to say something to him. If you don't feel comfortable doing that then that's fine, but he may be targeting you for a specific reason. Maybe you are an easy target?

Either way, tell someone! Hopefully things will be sorted out for you.

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Xui answered Saturday October 29 2011, 10:59 pm:
You need to tell someone. An adult, A school guidance counselor or even a parent. This is wrong and whatever it is he did too you, You NEED to tell someone you trust. You will not get in trouble, It's not your fault. Do not let him get away with this and I promise you if you let someone know they will handle it and you won't need to worry anymore.

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