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What to say when he says "I Love You"
How do you responde to someone who tell you they love you. I have had boyfriends that say I love you early in the relationship and i dont know what to say because i dont know if i do love him. What do i tell someone? How do i reply to him when he says i love you and im not sure what i feel?
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Yeah, this is really awkward. The only way you can respond, if you want to be honest, is, "look, I'm glad you feel that way for me and I do like being with you, but I'm not emotionally at that point yet where I can say it back." You can then joke that "I've always been a little slow."
Good luck. This isn't easy.
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Well you obviouskly aren't head over heels or in love with him.. it might and will come naturally later on for some people so... tell him what you told us , im glad you love me , but I really like you I just cant say it back because i dont know if I love you.. something along those lines.. or listen its a bit too early to be saying that.. but then again I mean if someone really does love you he will say it.. theres a diffeernce between i love you and love you.. i love you = you really mean it and your speak of yourself and love you= is yeah I love you but dont really associate myself with it... tell that someone what you told us... i love you then say well im happy you love me :) or just put a smiley face and a heart or kiss him
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You haven't been in love before and that's alright; so when a boyfriends tells you that they love you you tell them how you feel about them.
That is what they're doing (by saying they love you). So if you really like them and they make you happy then tell them that. I hate to tell you this but when you love someone you know it
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well there's no specific answer here.. its based on how you're feeling about the guy. You just need to be open, honest, and speak from your heart.
you can just say something like- "thanks. You're a great guy and I really like spending time with you. But, i think its too soon for me to tell if I love you or not. I would really appreciate it if we could continue seeing each other and getting to know each other better."
but yeah, don't lie or anything.
good luck!
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If you don't want to tell him the truth (that you aren't sure or that you don't love him yet), then say nothing. If you're pressed for a reply, tell him the truth as tactfully as possible. Lying is a bad idea here.
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