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Am I really acting like a slut
My bff told me I was the slut of the one class n I believe her. I wear short shorts that almost show my butt. I wear no sleeved shirts I wear low shirts. belly shirts I also wear short short dresses and I am 11 and a half. I made out with guys and i slept with a guy at his house. Is it true be truthful. Also how could I tell my other bffe(best friends for eternity)?
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i have a little sister who is turning 11 next month, and honestly i would probably beat her if i knew she was doing that kind of stuff. your so young, theres' no need for you to be doing that. cherish that your still young, practically a child. dont waste your childhood on growing up too fast, trust me . you'll regret it , and i'm sure you'll be going to middle school in a year or so, and you definitely don't want a bad reputation. You'll be dealing with far worse things like bullying, harrasing or maybe even getting into fights with people. so stop before its too late!
- mina
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Your not a slut.. like other said a slut is who sleeps 24/7 with guys, maybe they are jealous? maybe because you slept with a guy at his house and they have not yet because they are only 11.. so are you.. well you know what dress the way you want to , but like others said be careful if you dress to the point you have too much skin showing because people might pick on you and say you are a ''slut'' but you are not , you should dress with showingskin but with a limit dont worry your not a slut though , if they call you that just smile and walk away dont let it get to you.
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you're not a slut because sluts and whores are girls who actually have sex with guys almost 24/7 and practically sell their body.
there's a difference between BEING a slut, and ACTING like one.
you are acting like one, but you are not one.
You're only 11 and a half???? Oh gosh.. you are still such a young child, you really need to make better choices and think about what you're doing.. I dont understand what's wrong with these next generations.. I hear about 9 year olds getting pregnant. do you want to get pregnant? do you want to have a baby at 11 years old?? I highly doubt that, so please make better decisions and be smart.
Dressing like that is going to attract really REALLY strange men.. there are tons of perverts out there who would take advantage of you and that is not right.
If you're doing this because you want attention or want a cute guy etc, then there are PLENTY of other ways to do that. Dressing half naked will get that attention but in all the wrong ways.
You also have to realize this... you're 11. People will start labeling you pretty soon. Labeling/stereotyping is a horrible thing but thats how its been for a long time. If you dress this way, people will start to label you as a slut. Your bff thought you were a slut. If she thinks that, maybe other people think that too. Honey, being labeled a slut is a BAD thing.. nobody wants to be labeled that.. so I seriously suggest changing your attitude so nobody will label you the wrong thing or get the wrong image of you.
make good choices because they will affect you in the future. inbox me if you need more help.
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you are not a slut sweety you just need to make better choices so you dont look like one. skimpy clothes like that attract the wrong type of attention esspecially for an 11 year old. just cover yourself up a little more and watch how you act around guys:)
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First of all a slut is a woman prostitute or promiscuous girl. What you described about yourself is not a slut. However, wearing very revealing clothes can give people the idea that you are something that you are not. I like to use the rule of thumb that if you show off the top cover the bottom or visa-versa for example: If you wear a low cut shirt wear long pants or long skirts. If you were a short skirt wear a shirt that covers you well.
Honestly you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Your friends are most likely the same age as you so they haven't experienced life any more than you have. They might also be a bit jealous if perhaps you have developed and they have not. You are probably taking away the attention from them and thats what their real issue is. But just for your own self respect try not to be too revealing. Leave somthing for the imagination. You don't want to be treated based on the clothing you wear but on the person you are on the inside. Plus it's summer time. You have plenty of opportunity to show off your looks in a nice swim suit. Everyone is revealing then so your friends should have no complaints. :)
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I don't believe in calling anyone a slut
I do believe that people get the impressions that you give them, If you dress too revealing to the point where people think low of you then maybe it is time to change your appearance. I would generally tell you not too care about what other people think but reality is you are 11 years old and showing your body at such a young age is a bit inappropriate. Now your best friend could of worded it a little better than she did but perhaps she is trying to imply that you reveal to much of your body. At 11 years old, You are very young and should be dressing age appropriate. If you don't want people to think little of you then don't give them a reason too. Also, It is nothing to be proud of being called a slut. Not only does it give you a bad reputation but also a poor self image.
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