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Could this guy have feelings for me?


Question Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 9:20 am

so i like this guy and he said he liked me but not that much. i texted him and we talked,and i got a message from him at 1:00 am saying "hey why r u ignoring me?" so i tried to get ahold of him and he told me that i was getting annoying, so i told him i would stop talking to him, and he said that he still wanted to talk to me, just not all the time. so i want to know, could this guy have feelings for me?

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advicefashionista answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 9:47 pm:
He's definitely giving you mixed messages.. if he thinks you're getting annoying than why would he message you asking you why you're ignoring him? It sounds like he's messing with you head and your feelings. He has some sort of feelings for you, perhaps a crush that he isn't willing to take to the next level. To be honest, he seems like a bit of a jerk so I would say back off for a little while and see what happens. If he pursues you then I would say talk to him. But other than that, you shouldn't waste your time on someone who only wants to talk some of the time. Good luck and I hope I helped!

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Xui answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 5:33 pm:
Sounds like he likes you only as a friend, When guys tell a girl they are being annoying it usually means give them their space.

As far as liking you in a girlfriend way, No it doesn't sound like it.

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DangerNerd answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 2:03 pm:
Actually, the previous answer could be incorrect.

Most men will just totally ignore you in this situation. This guy was honest with you and told you that you were being too clingy for his taste.

Odds are, he at least wants to keep you as a friend, or he wouldn't have bothered trying to save the relationship by asking you not to be so clingy.

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MissYMelisS answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 1:46 pm:
Honestly...no I dont think he has feelings for you. He wouldnt tell you that you were annoying him if he liked you.

Find someone else.

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