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Legal Sex between 17 girl and 29 male ??


Question Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 12:52 am

A friend of mine has asked to meet a cousin of his GF, shes 17 and im 29... We both are ohio residents.

Im afraid to even meet her for something that might not be legal.

Please advice if i should say yes or no, with legal considerations about age of consent in OHIO...


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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday June 19 2011, 3:35 pm:
No, it's not legal.

On top of that, do you not think it's a little predatory and creepy to be planning to have sex with a 17-year-old girl you've never met?

Do you really think that just because you're older then she'll automatically have sex with you? It makes me very angry when guys like you assume girls will fall at their feet and immediately want to sleep with them.

If you'd said 'I've met a 17-year-old girl and I really like her, is it okay to have a relationship with her?' then perhaps I wouldn't be so judgmental but to me, you sound like the kind of weird older guy my friends and I were creeped out by when we were 17.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday June 15 2011, 2:11 am:
Wow. Asked to meet, you assume sex right off the bat. 12 year age gap, and you're asking on an advice website if it would be legal. Was googling "ohio age of consent laws" or something similar too hard for you?

You're quite the prize. You should say no. No 17 year old needs to get into a relationship with a guy your age who thinks like you do. Well, no one of any age really needs to, but a 17 year old who needs to be thinking about her own life rather than jumping into yours and all the issues I can only assume lie therein really, really doesn't need to.

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Xui answered Tuesday June 14 2011, 7:00 pm:
She is 17, She is still a minor.

It will not be consent until she reaches 18 years of age, She is still legally a child. If you two want a relationship then wait until she is legally an adult.

Personally, This person is very young and at the age of 29 you are a lot more experienced in life. Why would you be looking at a girl of age 17????

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DearAbby92 answered Tuesday June 14 2011, 4:25 pm:
Until she is 18, that is not legal. Each state has their own age gaps that are legal and are not (in my PA, it's four years) but it seems that 17 and 29 a big stretch.

-Abby

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