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How do I know to do it or not?
I am 13/F
There is this guy that i really like a lot and i know he used to like me to, but i am not sure if he still does. I want to get to know him better, we were on a the same team for a turnement for P.E. and we were pretty good friends and he sat by me a couple times in my history class instead of his assined seat, and I want to hang out with him a lot. I don't what I should, some of my friends are telling me to ask him out, and others are saying are you crazy? He is very popular and im not, but i really don't know what I should say to him, or if i should ask him if he wants to hang out, or just forget about him.
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Please do not let popularity stop you from making a move. But first, try to just go up and talk to him when he is not with a big crowd. Spark a small conversation and see where it leads. The best time to talk would be prob. in your P.E class. Maybe when you guys are next to ea. other playing a game or something. First start the conversation off with what's going on in that class then lead the conversation to a movie or something that just came out. If he seems interested ask him what he is doing the weekend that's coming up and offer to hang out and maybe go to the movies with you and some friends. This will give you a chance to hang out but not alone in-case you freeze up. Don't be afraid to make a move but don't come off to strong because he might not like you as a girlfriend or he might have a girlfriend. Good Luck!
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Only think of him as a friend. If you 2 can become better friends, then tell him you like him more than that. Don't just ask him out not a good idea. I'm 32/female, been there done that. Guys are mostly jerks too, make sure he is a nice guy that knows to respect you.
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First thing you need to realize is it doesn't really matter if someone is at the top of the popularity scale and your at the bottom. It's about the person not the rank they are. If you really like him you should talk to him,. and see what he says. worst case scenario is he declines your offer. but remember darlin that is not the end of all. There are other fish in the sea,. and you are still young and have many adventures to come.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Just talk to him and get to know him better as a friend. No need to rush anything or make anything awkward.
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