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Should i go through with it?
I'm 22 and have been hooking up with a 40 year old, we've had sex once before but he wants to continue hooking up. Has anyone else been with someone older than them or do you guys think it's wrong???
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You guys are adults. Do what makes you feel good. Never let others dictate to you how you run your life unless you are hurting others or yourself. Live life according to what makes you personally happy since nobody else can live it for you.
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40-year-old guys are the best :)
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Ok, well first off you didn't really give me any details to work with so, Ill just say, if you know him well and if you think that the relationship will go places then yes but if it is a booty call or if you feel like he is jus tusing you then NO dont do it take all of your feelings into account if even one part of you says no then dont do it because usually that tiny litle voice that you can never really here because of your loud one is right:-)
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Iam going to tell you becouse i've dated an older guy before and I don't think it's a good idea. I know it wasn't for me.
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Julie 75 said it all, just make sure he doesn't become a sugerdaddy, cuz then your just a prostitute.
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If you are the same girl who has been asking about her 40 year old co-worker who had sex with her while she was pretending to be passed out and has childhood trauma she has not addressed in therapy as of yet then I'd say
NO!
And don't leave out important details just because you want a certain kind of answer - It's unkind to those who want to help you honestly.
I have dated older men, some happily and some less happily. I would never date a man who expressed a willingness to rape me. That is not okay. That is not healthy. That is not safe.
Address your confusions and past experiences in therapy. Please!
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I learned a lot of stuff when I was younger from an older man. He was patient, made sure I came first and didn't mind getting a little freaky once in a while. He was definitely worth the occasional booty call. If he's not married or not bad in bed, I say go for it. I hope this helps and good luck.
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