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I'm pregnant with my best friends baby
Me and my best friend are both 15, and basically a couple of weeks ago we kind of just gave into each other. We have kinda liked each other for years just never done anything about it. He took my virginity and I took his, but the condom broke. I took a test 3 times and it came back positive all 3 times. I know I have to tell him
but I don't know how. :( I know he will stick by me.
How should I tell him I'm pregnant?
I'll be seeing him tommorow to study, and want to tell him then, but don't know how to bring up the conversation.
Help??
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well......be like heyy so do u want to have sex again? and if he says yes b like well srry cause it might hurt our baby and hope he doesnt run away, but if he says no b like good cause then u mite get me preganat..again and hope he doesnt run away:) good luck!!!!!
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Hi,
Just tell him. It is not like it is your fault. You both had a part in it. It might be hard and awkward but the truth is going to come out anyway.
You should just come out with it. Best thing to do.
Good Luck with everything :)
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Wow! This is a tough situation for everyone involved.
If you think this it the hard part wait until you have to tell everyone's parents.
The best thing to do is just tell him. I think it would be best to tell him alone. Give him time too. He is only 15 and this is a very emotional age. He may not take it well. For your sake I hope he really does stick it out. Most teenage relationships do not work out and that is a possibility you are going to have to face.
Once he is over the initial shock of everything the two of you need to stand together and tell both of your parents. It is only after that you can both decide what the next step in being a parent is.
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Hey there,
I think the best way to do it, is to wait until you two are in the room alone about to study and then talk about that night when the condom broke. Say "You know that one day we had sex?", wait for his response, then say "I really enjoyed it and I think our relationship is ready for another step". When he asks 'what is that?' tell him that he is a dad. There is no real blunt way to tell him, you just have to casually let him know. You say he will stick by you, so he must be a sweet guy. At first it may be awkward, but I am sure he will be shocked/happy all at once. If you make the setting comfortable, with just the two of you and then let him know.. it will be easier for the both of you. By the sounds of it, your baby will have a great dad :) Let him know how great he is/will be <3
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Okay this is a toughie, and I would know this for sure; I'm seventeen now, but I had a baby when I was fourteen. First, you need to ask yourself, Do I want to keep this child? To this, I answered yes. If you answer no, then go get an abortion, and only tell like your parents or a relative. If you said you don't know, then look in adoption ads, or talk to your parents. If you said yes, read on. Next, you need to think of him: He's a young boy, and he may not get to do everything he wants to in life, knowing that he has a baby that he is not with. Believe it or not, guys are very protective of their children. My boyfriend (father of my child) and I live in a house that my parents rent out to us. He's home while I'm at school (he's eighteen and already graduated). My baby girl's my whole world. Okay, so this is how I told him: I rode my bike over to his house (bike, optional) and climbed up to his window( though I don't recommend it) and climbed in and lay on his bed until he came in. I then said, "Want to play twenty questions?" And we did, and my word was pregnant. He didn't guess it, but I told him, and he instantly knew. If you need further help in anything baby related, e-mail me at twilight82198@gmail.com
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