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Who do i choose
Ok so I have a boyfriend who i been dating for a month and is nice but my dad thinks hes sneaky and my dads pinion counts
then i have a guy frend that we have been hanging out all the tie and is amazing and my dad really likes him but what should i do i no he likes me and i no he is thinking of asking me out but should i stay with my guy or try something new
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Well, this is tricky. I love it that you take your father's opinon seriously. Alot of people don't. In the end, it depends on what you feel. Do you think "your guy" is sneaky? Do you still have feelings for him? Could you imagine a future with him?
Then ask your self this. With the other guy Do you have feelings for him? Are they stronger then with "your guy"? Could you imagine a future with him?
This is a tricky decision. You need to make the right decision. So, take as long as you need. This does involve your feelings and their's to, so you have to know that it is the right one.
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Well I lean towards the guy you're starting to like. Your dads opinion should count, that's really good. Usually parents have good judge for what's good for you. If the guy your with isn't really making you happy and you think maybe this other guy would be better and on top of that your dad likes him then I think you should try it out. It's all up to you though. Good luck!
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try making a pro/con list and seeing which one would make YOU the happiest in the long run.
yes other people's opinions do matter, but dont let them completely influence your decision. take them into consideration but dont do something just for your dads sake.
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The important question here is who makes you happiest? I would guess your boyfriend must be lacking or you would not even be considering the other guy.
It is good that your dad's opinion counts. Believe it or not we parents do know a thing or two about being young. Your dad may see something in the guys that your youth blinds you to.
Personally I would talk to the new guy and then decide which one is the best fit for you.
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