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Is there something wrong with me??
Ok I haven't started my period yet and in early October I'll be 14. My mom started when she was 12 and so did her mom... But my dads mom started after 14 and moms sister and her daughter started at 14. I know I'll probably start at 14 but I want it to just come. People say what you think will happen so I I think about it more will it just come? Or will it wait longer tht way.? Also is there any way I can know when it will cone? Thanks... ASAP please!!!!
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The more you worry about it the longer it will take, believe me, you may spend the next 20 years always worrying if you are on time...all I learned is that the more you worry the worse it is, the minute you stop it will be there when it is ready...quit stressing it out, you are too young to be worrying about this. You will be a woman the rest of your life, chill and enjoy the rest of your childhood, it's almost over. Good luck. Then welcome those hormones. Yikes!
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What you're going through is normal. Lots of girls are late bloomers, and some girls don't get their periods til 16!
You will get your period. I don't know when, but I'm sure you will get it soon. Freaking out and worrying isn't going to help you. Just relax and be patient. You'll get it.
And besides, some girls consider you lucky. :)
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Everyone matures at different ages. Your body will mature when it is ready. There are some external factors which may affect why you are not maturing as fast as the other women in your family. Have you ever looked at some of the women Olympic athletes? Have you noticed that many of them as old as 21 still do not have the bodies one would expect of females of that age? Have you ever noticed that once they stop competing and working out each day their bodies fully mature? Well many of these same women do not have periods either.
If a woman is very athletic, for reasons I am not aware of, her body holds off maturing. If you are very athletic this could be the reason you have not had a period yet. I would say once you stop training your body will mature and your period will arrive. If you enjoy the athletics you are doing please continue with the knowledge that when you are no longer interested your body will finish maturing.
If you are not into athletic and are really concerned about being a late bloomer or not blooming at all; ask your mother to make an appointment with her doctor. Her doctor will do a battery of test to make sure nothing is physically wrong with you and that you are just a late bloomer. This should put your mind at rest.
Being a male I do not know what it is like to have a period; from what my wife has told me and what I have seen my sister and a number of girlfriends go through, once you get your period you will wish you hadn’t. So I would say enjoy whatever cramp free time you have left for once you do get your period you are looking at thirty to forty years of monthly cramps and bloating.
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Hell no! gf u dont want ur period! its really annoying. I got mine at like 10. Im an early bloomer. which is good cause you dont want to be like 15 and not even have boobs. But when it comes, just know tampons are your friend, and the day after your period is the worst. hope this helps~
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Stress can cause a period to come later.
Have you started developing breasts yet? Underarm hair?
Those are signs that you'll be getting it soon.
I, myself, got mine when I was around 11.
My mom was 12. And my eldest sister I believe was 16.
The day before I got it, I had the worst stomach pains I've ever had in my life. They were so bad I couldn't eat or walk the entire day.
So therefore cramping is a sign on your period coming.
Also, if you notice you've been breaking out with zits more then usual, that's also a sign.
In all honestly, once you get your period, you're going to wish it never existed. It's thirty+ years of an annoying monthly visitor.
Enjoy yourself now while you can.
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Everyone is different so it doesn't necessarily mean your period will come right now. It could maybe come a year or two after its not a big deal. And unfortunately there is no way of knowing when it is going to come either way. Don't worry too much about it, it will happen when its suppose to!
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