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Is some affection alright for school?
Hello, I'm 15. My boyfriends 17. >.< We both reached an older age, this July. <3
I've been dating my boyfriend Sense January, 5,2010.<3 I'm proud that I've lasted this long with him. Our relationship is difficult, but we trust each other, we both are insecure/shy well (mostly me) about each other, we lift each other up when were down. Were always here for each other.We've cried together..everything and I love this guy more than anything. Now he use to wait after school for me, at the middleschool *When I was in 8th* When he moved in to kiss me one day, the teachers saw and told my principel. We were both told not to, and I have PDA on my permenent record :/ Now I didn't think this was far because he said high schoolers aren't allowed over at the middle school, but tons and tons of highschoolers run in and out of there CONSTANTLY. We weren't doing anything wrong, he didn't mean any harm. Now that I'm a freshmen, he says that our highschool is less strict in that category. Now I don't want to cause attention to myself but I do believe I should be able to show affection for my boyfriend.Is it bad to kiss in highschool? Has anyone gotten in trouble for there actions in the highschool?
Please tell me your opinions. >.< thanks.
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You won't get in trouble, but don't stand around in the hallway making out..School isn't the place for that. Some people could get annoyed. Most people won't think highly of you.
It's really just courtesy to keep that out of school. A quick kiss is okay, but please be reasonable.
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Don't sweat the "premenent record" stuff. The school was more concerned about a high school student showing up at middle school even thoough it happens all they time. A lot of that interaction is guys looking for younger girls they can take advaantage of.
A quick hug is not out of line, but making out or lingering all over each other is not appropriate. Think of schoool as your job - what behavior is appropriate for on-the-job? (Note, what passes for professional dress and behavior for women on-the-job in TV shows, is a far cry from reality!)
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I've kissed plenty in the high school halls, and not once have i been caught. Hell...i see people making out and ontop of each other in the high school halls, trust me, nothing will happen.
I think the reason you probably got in trouble was because you got caught kissing someone who is quite a few years older when your around people your age. I dont think its bad to show public affection, but teachers and parents probably thought that it was inappropriate exposure for other kids your age to see.
Plus, as you get older, teachers care less about students having personal space and more about all the dreaded papers they have to correct.
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First of all, I heard there is no such thing as a permanent record. So, don't worry about that. If you are worried about schools seeing you gave PDA in school, it's not going to affect your chance of getting into any college. The only reason you probably got in trouble for kissing is either a) you guys were like groping eachother or b) they saw the age difference and didn't like it.
In my high school, you don't really get in trouble for
kissing. You will if you go beyond that..you will get in serious trouble. Things in my school that are ok is holding hands, a hug, and a small peck. Anything besides that, if the teachers don't yell at you, students will. Nobody likes to see kids making out in the hall way. It also may give you a bad reputation if you two are like on top of eachother.
Have fun in high school it goes by so fast!
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