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Member Since: March 23, 2010
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Last Update: August 10, 2010
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Hello, I'm 15. My boyfriends 17. >.< We both reached an older age, this July. .< thanks. (link)
You won't get in trouble, but don't stand around in the hallway making out..School isn't the place for that. Some people could get annoyed. Most people won't think highly of you.
It's really just courtesy to keep that out of school. A quick kiss is okay, but please be reasonable.


I think I have anxiety issues. I will list some things to help you decide. I think alot about my future, what I'm going to do, what I'm going to become and sometimes I think to much about it and I realize I have no clue what I want to do and I'd cry because I think I am going to get nowhere in life, sometimes I get mad at myself for being three pounds over my normal weight. But I don't really know what anxiety attacks are which is the reason I am asking this question, to see if someone can explain to the fullest amount what they are. What the anxiety attacks are, uh, so famous people you know of that has them and how it's affecting their life (I only say famous because I would know them, as well. "Oh, my best bud Jimmy.." I wouldn't know him) I believe Alex Gaskarth has attacks. Uh, yea. Please fill me in, that'd be great! Thanks! (link)
Anxiety isn't always a disorder that requires treatment- it's normal to feel stressed or nervous.
It can be treated with medication, therapy, or just a change of lifestyle. You may find you don't have to go as far as to get medicated for it, but going to a therapist might help. It's personal, obviously.

There are also different types of anxiety disorders (OCD or PTSD for example.) Attacks would differ with these different types of anxieties- what you described sounded pretty general.

I have had problems with anxiety disorders in the past. I don't know about 'famous people' having anxiety. But I do know that with proper treatment, anxiety is something that can be alleviated so it doesn't affect your life in a major way.


I'm not sure how, i've done some before, and it feel likes I am taking way to long, i feel like the guy is just laying there rolling his eyes, and i just feel akward, like I'm failing or somethings.
What do i do? How can i be better? (link)
There are videos and tips that can be found online through a search engine, and these can be a good starting point.
However, getting to know the guy is the best thing to do. If you don't know what he likes, then ask him. If he wants you to do something differently, do it. Knowing that he likes what you're doing for him would obviously make you feel more confident, and he's the only one that can tell you.




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