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He could never talk to me.
There is this boy at my church that I like. I initiated everything, the phone calls, the notes, the eye contact. Which is why I never initiated an actual conversation, that was his job. He never did, though. He could not work up the nerve to talk to me. Ever! He writes me these cute notes, saying I'm his only one, that he gets a huge knot in his stomach when he tries to talk to me. He's on the church worship team and every time he would sing, he would look right at me, like he was singing to me. He had since gotten a girlfriend, talked to her and just asked her out, no problem. Why couldn't he talk to me and ask me out that easily?
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It sounds like he feels inferior to you because of how much he likes you, maybe he's afraid he will mess things up. I would ask him the next time you see him why he never initiated a conversation with you, and that you were really looking forward to being able to chat with him. Maybe then he will open up a little bit, and you guys can get to know each other more. Good luck to you on that.
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He is most likely too shy to speak to you. If that is the case, then he likes you more than his girlfriend. He probably likes you way more than his girlfriend. In his head, he is probably too obsessed with you that he feels weird talking to you. But wants to really badly.
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ok my frind had a problem like this,
altho she was more angry that he liked her. because she went to church to worship not to meet prople. i distinctly remember hearing "i hate it when cute guys come to my church and talk to me, youknow im there to pray"
maynbe this guy felt that way about you, maybe he didnt want to ask you because he felt that it wasnt right.
you never know
also maybe its because you didnt intiate the convosation like you say. a relationship is give and take. not just take take take. you need to do stuff too.
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Maybe he sees you as the type of girl that is so amazing that he doesn't want to screw up when he talks to you. I think he is scared because he likes you so much and maybe doesn't want things to come out all wrong. My advice to you is since you already know that he likes you because of the phone calls and notes, just go up and YOU be the one to start the conversation with him. :) although you've started everything else, don't be scared to start a conversation either :)
Best if luck to you!
i hope this helps! :)
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Sometimes, when a guy really likes someone, they are really shy. Maybe he doesn't like this new girl as much as he did you which is what I personally think is true. He may think that you're not as into him as he is to you or that you are too good for him so he was too scared to ask you out for fear you'd say no or he just couldn't work up the nerve because he liked you too much.
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