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i want more... but she is happy with her boyfriend. :(
Hello, i am 15 and female. When i was in the 7th grade i was in a relationship with my best friend, she had a boyfrind at the time and he knew we were together, he even saw us kissing sometimes. we have only kissed, nothing too serious. In the 8th grade we were still going out and i didnt like other people thinking i was a lesbian or something so i broke up with her. We are both bisexual. Now we are both going into the 10th grade and i have these feelings where i want to make out with her and all that stuff. and its hard to control because we go to eachothers houses often and i always have the urge to kiss her but i never know how to go about it. The worse thing about this is she is in a comited relationship with a good guy friend of mine and they are happy together. What do i do? Do i tell her or should i keep it to my self?
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The sane option is to keep the friendship and respect her relationship.
The risky option is to tell her the truth and see where it leads you.
The comedy option is to start liking her boyfriend and move in with both of them (buying a bigger bed along the way)
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Haha, sorry 10th grade. Guess the comedy option has to wait a while. I'm sure there's a Charlie Sheen sitcom somewhere around here...
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I think you should keep it to yourself seeing as you don't want to come in between her and the relationship if you tell her it might cause problems
which you don't want to happen things weren't meant to be between you two you can't make something work
that isn't meant to be hope isn't lost though seeing
as your still young plus there's plenty of boys or girls out there for you to choose from so yes i think you should keep it to yourself and be happy for your friend seeing as that's what friend's do
and support her while she's in the relationship(:
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If you had a guy friend who had a committed girlfriend, would you kiss him? Probably not, because cheating is cheating, no matter what gender preference. Her boyfriend might have been fine with it before, because in Grade 7 nobody's that serious about each other, and hey, he got to see two chicks kissing.
I know it sucks, but you've got to keep this to yourself until if and when she breaks up with her guy. It's rough, because it seems like it would be something totally different. It's not, though.
Also, you broke up with her before because you were ashamed of what people might think; that would make me stop and think twice. I know if I were her, I wouldn't want to risk that again. If you do approach her for a relationship, make sure you go about it the right way. Don't be all skittish about people thinking you're a lesbian. Be proud of your girl :)
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