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We had sex with our clothes on, could I be pregnant?
17/f boyfriend is 17/m. i forget when, but my boyfriend and i had an intense make out session [with ALL of our clothes on] and i somehow ended up on top of him grinding or whatever you would call it but not like intense grinding where its like rough..you know? okay well anyways, im not on birth control because it can cause cancer so my mom wont put me on it, and he wasnt wearing a condom but he did cum. i was ontop of him where he cummed. there was a spot on his pants that was wet [i dont remember how wet or how big or if it got on me] but it was there. so i got off of him. and i have been freaking out that im pregnant because i have not gotten my period this month, and i usually get it at the end of the month, but now im not? and its almost the end of the month. i am seriously freaking out. i cannot be pregnant like this wouldnt be fair so i researched the topic alot and found basically the same information on each one that said..
Q: We had sex with our clothes on, could I be pregnant?
A: No. If you had sex in your jeans, shorts, underwear or bathing suit, there's no way you can be pregnant. Sperm can't swim through clothes and continue traveling into the vagina. Sperm can only swim in liquids--like semen and vaginal fluid.
but i didnt have sex. thats the thing. and i did have underwear AND jeans on and he had boxers and his jeans [plus our shirts and stuff]. im seriously bugging out. i am such a good girl, i hate myself, i dont know what came over me. and i talked to him about it and told him that if i am pregnant, i am getting an abortion and he doesnt believe in that. and i will be forced to break up with him and ill never be able to leave the house again. and please dont tell me to take a test. thank you. please help me. my back hurts from time to time, my boobs have hurt for like a weekish now and thats it. i dont have my regular period symptoms like feeling wetness in my vagina or a lot of discharge or cramps... and i am freaking out. i cry every day, its horrible. thank you for taking the time to read this.
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You are not pregnant. There is no way in God's green earth that it would even be possible. Sperm does not swim through clothes.
Also, what kind of cancer is your mom concerned about you getting? There is no conclusive evidence that states the pill CAUSES cancer, though studies have shown there's a correlation between the pill and reducing ovarian cancer.
Make a doctor's appointment and have a chit chat about safe contraception. You need and deserve accurate information. Whoever has been responsible for your sex ed (your parents/school) have so far let you down.
And also, stress can make your period late.
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Your systems are all in your head. You're freaking out for no reason. There's no scientific way possible for semen to travel through all those clothes into your vagina to make you pregnant. It can't happen ever. Are you a bad person?
Should you hate yourself? The answer: absolutely not! What you're doing is NATURAL and safe for that matter. If you enjoy it fine if not don't. Nothing bad is going to transpire because of it. I seriously shake my head at what they don't teach kids about in sex-ed programs.
I'm recommending you read scarleteen.com as it cuts through the myths and empowers teens. It's staffed by professional sex educators and the fact sheets & articles will make it so you never have to work yourself into a tizzy over incorrect information like this.
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Honey you are not pregnant I PROMISE u that, because its impossible. And its impossible that when he cummed, the semen wet his pants and that made a spot, and then the semen passed from inside the pant through the spot to your vagina and inside it, what the hell? no way, think realistically. Its impossible. To the extent that i wasn't even considering to tell you to take a test, cause it doesn't need a test to confirm whether you are pregnant or not, cause you are NOT.
And about you feeling back pain and your boobs hurt, honey i get these symptoms when i get my period, and not just because you know that you experience these symptoms when you are pregnant, so your mind just played tricks on you, basically psychologically making you think that you are experiencing these symptoms. You are scared, and stressed and worried and that is what is causing your period to come late, but its going to come, as soon as you just relax.
And some suggestions that would release your period, is that you can drink cinnamon,with milk or cinnamon tea, and maybe take some iron tablets (vitamins). But most importantly, is to relax, cause your stress is stopping your period from menstruating.
I don't want you to worry at all, its going to be alright.
Hope i helped, if you need anything else ,please be free to contact me. Best of luck :D
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NO you are NOT pregnant, This is literally impossible. Sperm does not travel through clothing, Stop freaking out. It's probably stress and use a condom be smart.
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YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT..
That is not possible..
Your stressing out.. and you have been since it happend. That is why you have not started your period. You body can sense things.. and when you stress, everything inside of you goes crazy.
But about the aborition subject.
You ARE intitled to your opinon on the subject.
But i feel that i need to give you another way to look at it.
If you were to get pregnant, that is on YOU and the guy who gets you pregnant.
You know that when you lay down and open your legs there is a chance that you can get pregnant.. how is that the babys fault?
[the sperm that makes the baby, even though it's as big as a fingernail is still a soul]
if your fate is not to get pregnant right then, you won't get pregnant until your supposed to.. (:
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You aren't pregnant.
I don't even often say that, I normally say 'yeah well there is a really small chance right...' but there is no chance in this situation! It's so amazingly unlikely you are pregnant that if you are, I'd be more likely to believe that you are carrying the next Christ child then that your boyfriend's semen actually managed to get into you in this way.
Semen isn't smart. It doesn't know which way to go and doesn't weave intelligently through clothing. It moves around vaguely forwardish in liquid. If there is not enough liquid to move in, it doesn't move. If there is a dry spot, it can't travel accross it. There was no way dampness on his pants, made it through all your clothing and up inside your body.
Stop freaking out. The only thing you are doing is making yourself sick. You aren't pregnant.
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