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can they tell if you cheat when...
if you have sex with someone bigger then your boyfriend.... can they tell?
i have been with this guy for 3 years and made a drunk mistake with someone else who was alot bigger then my boyfriend. so he fits perfectly inside me...can he tell i cheated on him the next time we have sex?
i heard you could.
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No. The only thing that will alter it is child birth, not a penis.
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The "you can't tell" thing isn't entirely true, but the two sexings have to be within an hour or two of each other. Past probably about 90 minutes there's not going to be a difference. Generally, if the same couple has sex twice in an hour the guy (unless he's small enough that he doesn't stretch her out at all) will notice that she's not quite as tight the second time around.
Kegels can pretty much eliminate this, for the record. I'm not telling you for cheating purposes, but if you find yourself in a relationship where you're often having sex several times in a day kegels are a good thing to practice to keep the enjoyment up for both of you, because when you're looser you get less sensation too.
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No, but you should tell him anyway. Having sex with another guy puts his health at risk, condom or not. If you love him, you'll tell him. If you're a coward, you won't.
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No they cannot tell. Regardless of what some may believe from reading stupidity on the internet.
You should tell him because your relationship has some problems, but he can't tell just by having sex with you.
I am 52 with a medical background if that helps.
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Hello, Can They Tell If You Cheat When...
This is an important question. The answer is yes! At least for a little while after the encounter. A man you have been with for three years knows you well enough to tell the difference. At least we would hope so anyway.
Your 'vagina' may be elastic, and return to its shape, but each encounter leaves it a little looser than before. That is why if you were to look at women who are porn stars or have just had more than their fair share of sex, you will see worn out gear.
Trust me, I had this very same thing happen to me when I was only 19 years old. My boyfriend at the time was gigantic. The largest man I have ever seen to this day! The guy I cheated with was drastically smaller. A few day later, I had sex with my boyfriend and he asked me who I had slept with and where he lived so he could go kill him. I asked my boyfriend how he found out about my 'mistake'. He said, "I am your lover, I can tell when someone else has been in you."
I would wait to have sexual encounters with your boyfriend for at least a week or two if you choose to live a lie.
Your 'vagina' will return to the size it is normally used to. You say this other guy was bigger, and fits you perfectly. That implies that your boyfriend is too small for you, and you think the other guy's penis is perfect for you. Maybe you want a man with a bigger penis. Whatever it is, you must be honest with yourself and your boyfriend.
Do no believe anyone who tells you that a man you have slept with for three years will not notice that you have had sex with a man larger than him!
Now that we have that out of the way. I think that you need to ask yourself "why" you made the mistake. If you were happy with your boyfriend, you would have been strong enough in love to not have a moment of weakness.
What is your communication level with your three year boyfriend? Why were you drinking without him around?
If you loved him, you would have remained faithful. True love will keep you from noticing other males, even when in a drunken stupor. So you need to be asking yourself why you did this, instead of wondering if he will find out. You bet he will find out, and when he does, not only will you be a cheat, but also a liar.
I think it is time for you to re-evaluate your relationship, like a three year audit. Are you happy with him? Is he the one you wish to be with for the rest of his life? Are you willing to hide this secret for as long as you are with him? If you had the opportunity to have sex with the other guy again, would you?
That is the biggest problem with people today. No one thinks before they act. They act and then deal with the consequences. He will find out. Trust me.
Cosmic Advice for 'Can They Tell if You Cheat When?'
Come clean. He knows you have a secret. The High Priestess tells us that this is an unknown time for you. She tells us that being honest is the best thing, even when the information is dark. This experience is a message for growth, so listen to it, learn from it, and have faith that things will turn out for the best. Most importantly have faith in yourself. You will emerge from this event with the gift of insight.
Trust in yourself, make good choices, and spread the smiles! :)
I hope that you find happiness, and remember, I am here anytime you need me. Good Luck!
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no they will not be able tell.promise its impossible.but honesty is best for the sake of both of you.
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No, your vaginia is very "elastic" and at your young age, will always go back to it's normal size. It is only after you give birth, vaginally, that you and your lover could feel a difference. And hopefully that is many years from now.
Relax, it will be ok. Just don't let your behavior, like nervousness, give you away.
Good luck
Michele
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