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My father's attitude
My father's attitude towards me is very negative i
feel like whenever i talk to him he makes negative
comments about me almost as if i'm not good enough it doesn't make me feel very good is there anything
i can do to stop this from happening?
Thank you
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I know exactly what you're talking about and how you feel and what you're going through, and it's as if he's not interested with anything to do with you, and everytime you say something or do something,he'd always criticize negatively,and he's always disappointing you and putting you down and making you upset. Its a common problem, but its not a very nice problem, and maybe if you talk to him about it, not in a serious way or to have a fight or anything, but just a heart to heart conversation, and maybe if your mother agrees with you about his attitude towards you, and if you have any sisters or brothers and they agree too, so they'd be on your side, so maybe you could tell them to talk to your dad about how he treats you, especially your mom, she should tell him that herself. And if he sees that you all agree together, he'll start reconsidering his attitude and maybe really seeing that he's not being so nice to you.
Hope i helped, feel free to contact me if you need anything. Best of luck!
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I can relate to you...I feel as though I get that from my father and sometimes even my mother. I feel that I do whatever I can to make them happy and still it seems as though its not good enough so they continue out the bad things. Here and there I get pats on the back but a lot of criticism comes along with it. You have to realize that this isn't about you...this is your father's issue. You can talk to him and tell him how you feel but whether or not he changes is up to him. First step you should do is talk to him and see what he says. If that doesn't work don't take what he says to personally. Like they always say about parents they only want what is best for you.
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Some parents don't know how to talk to their children and they don't even realize it. I doubt that he is trying to make you feel like that, but you should talk to him about it and let him know. He is your dad and he loves you no matter what, but just let him know how you are feelings. I went through the same thing. My dad didn't know how to communicate with me, but after I talked to him things got a lot better between us.
Good luck!
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