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proving that he can trust me again
so long story short, i got into a bit of trouble recently. and my dad doesn't trust me anymore. he says i have to earn it back, since he can't take my word for anything anymore.
i was wondering if anyone would have any thoughts on what i could do?
i'm 17/f, and i can't drive. if that helps any.
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This will take some time, but do try and buckle down and do well in all areas of life. You're smart and mature enough to handle this, since you do want his trust back. I also advise you to sit down and talk to your dad. Maybe offer to do something with him that he likes to do. Even though parents might lose your trust from time to time, if you make the effort to reconnect with them and show you really love them they can't deny you a little trust and confidence back. After all, parents do love you but just want what's best for you in life. I hope this helps.
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Earning anyone's trust back takes time. It isnt just a one day thing. You can't lie not even a little. You need to keep up with your chorese in the house and doing extra things. Dont be a suck up but ask your dad to play a game with you or if he wants to go to the movies with you. Cook dinner one night. I mean do this for 2-3 weeks and hell see you are really sorry for what you got in trouble for.
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It'd be easier to help you if I knew what you did. But all I can say, is stay on his good side, don't argue a lot, do what he says right away so he doesn't get angry. Do better in school, just try and behave at your best.
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Be patient. You are going to have to earn it back and there is no quick and easy way to do that. The best way is to just be sensible about this. Don't demand anything. If you want to go out ask nicely, see if he will consider it, tell him who you are going with, where, give a time range. Its things like this that will show him you are trying and will help earn the trust back. Also talk to him about stuff. School. Friends. Whatever topic.
One step at a time. Be responsible. Don't give him any other reasons not to trust you. All this will take is time and some sensible actions on your half.
Goodluck!
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