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She did what?
My best friend of 6 years. Really did me wrong last night. She wrong on her statis on facebook. "mynamehere,Is a dirty slut & a liar"
Then all my friends started attacking it and writeing on it and curseing her out. but then she got mad, nd wrote all over my wall,4 paragraphs.On everything sexual ive done,My weight,nd alot of other stuff.I got so mad.Like so mad. Then for some reason my mother got in it.And started curseing on it. And all this 15 years olds didnt like it.So they were telling my mom to square up & what not.When i read all of this today.I was like how stupied can people be?
But any way.I really don't know what to do.i did talk to her cause her mom called the school and tryed to say that i started it when i had to proof she did.So were not friends anymore.BUt i kinda want to get back at her.Or will that let me down to her leval.What should i do?
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You should not get back at her.Karma comes around so you culd just wait till some1 does someting to her and you just sit back and watch it.Or for payback (which i dont suggest but would do) is if you know a guy she likes or something importent to her you go after it.But try and not pay mind to her so every1 can see that your the bigger person and she is jelous of you
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Okay trust me, I used to be the queen of doing wrong to those who had originally screwed me over and embarrassed me. The outcome is usually regret. I regret a lot of what I said and wish I could get some of the friends back that I let go because of dumb fights. This is kind of different because she openly attacked you, but the real way to piss her off is to just ignore it and do what you can to get her to stop. If you mail her and tell her to stop, then block her and if she continues to harass you, you can call the police and they can do something about it.
Getting back at her does bring you down to her level, but you gotta do what you think is right for you to get over this. If your way of dealing with this situation is getting back at her, then that's on you.. but if your way to deal is to just ignore it and be a way better person then I suggest that option.
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You want her back? What kind of friend does that? That's not even a friend, clearly she has issues and wants attention by announcing what she feels on facebook. She sounds like oneof those girls who updates her status to get attention whether good or bad. Drop her as a friend altogether why would you give her another chance? She's much too immature and clearly she's a liar! You're better off...and to tell you the truth after reading this I was a bit pissed off. If anyone ever did that to me...forget the three strikes.... YOU'RE OUT!
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I know it is SO tempting to get back at these girls, and your one friend in particular, but dont do it. I have had a lot of bad things done to me on facebook, Ive been harassed, people have drawn pictures of me and put it on facebook, [mean pictures] people commented on it, had their statuses about me, made wall to walls about me. made horrible and mean videos to me on my wall, made groups about me.. shoved me in school.. it was really bad and it was all because my boyfriend dumped his ex girlfriend and then we got together. lame.
At one point, I did start to stoop to their level and reply to everything that they were doing to me. i was hated for doing NOTHING. and it drove me insane. they brought my family into it, and I cried for days. I tried to ignore them, but it was hard.. you want to defend yourself and fight back, right? I know, but.. well, dont. be the bigger person. I promise that you will feel better later on.
However, if you want to confront these girls, then NICELY [well, in the nicest way possible] tell them that what they did was wrong, but you're over it and it stops now.. then go ahead. but dont curse them out or start another war, just let them know that you're not putting up with it and that you're going to ignore it.
But i suggest blocking them all from your facebook, so you dont have to see what they write, and so that you're not tempted to do something you might regret later on. delete everything they did, but save it on your computer, in case you might ever need it again in the future. but try to forget about it for now. I'm so sorry this happened to you. girls are cruel. this shouldnt have happened to you.
good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! and dont let these girls bring you down, just stay awesome :] xxo.
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Delete everything that appears on your wall that you don't want there, and than let it go.
People love drama, espcailly drama they don't even have to deal with face to face.
Right now, you have the high ground in this. If you try to 'get back' at her, you WILL be sinking down to her level, and this thing that you hated so much happening, will happen agian, and probably be even less controllable than the first time, and the only one to blame will be you.
Don't sink, and don't stir up more public trouble for all those little drama seekers to latch onto and share thier useless little opinions over. Simply walk away, literally and figuratively, while you have the high ground.
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