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Okay so, This boy that i am in love with, the girl thats treats him bad just broke up with him becauze they do not get along.So now i thought we would go out cuz he told me we would. But he is now like.I am only useing you for sex,& you let me. I cant help my self he is like a drug to me for 2 years now. Should i let him go? Or should i keep trying?
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I know to me that the plain and simple answer is definately let him go, but to u.. I can see why it can be difficult. Two years is a long time to be with someone whether they're a friend, lover, or sex freak. My cousin visited me this summer for like 2 weeks and right after she left I missed her already. Your relationship between the guy that you're having sex with and my relationship are two different kinds of relationship, but something they have in common is that they're both someone important to us. My cousin is important to me because I love her. That guy is important to you because you love him, but what he is doing to you is clearly showing you that he doesnt love you back. If he's only using you for sex then why date him? Sometimes staying around long enough isn't going to make him see anything more than what he does see in you, and I know that may be harsh but what's important is your happiness. 2 years is a really long time, and if I were you I'd rather spend those two years away from him and finding someone that would value me. I know you love him, I dont understand WHY you love him. But what would make you happier? Him using you as sex or you finding someone else you love that loves you back? Sex between two people that love each other dearly is a very important thing in bonding. If he doesn't love you what are you bonding for? He just wants to have fun, when you're clearly serious.
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Sweetie, don't even spend your time worried about this, you're way better than that. Any guy who is willing to ADMIT that he's using you, is OBVIOUSLY not a good guy and has no real feelings for you. Move on and find someone better; someone who cares for you and doesn't just use you. Once you do move on, find someone else, and don't act interested anymore; he'll chase you. Guys always want the thing they can't have. If he realizes you're no longer after him and aren't interested, he's going to chase you TRUST me. Just don't let him back into your life, don't even give him the time of day. I know it's hard letting go of someone you've been intimate with for 2 years but you just need to realize it's the best thing for you in the long run and your life will seem a lot less complicated. <3
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LET IT GO!! theres no need to stay around just to be someones fck buddy. thats not cute. theres so many other guys out there that wud be willing to be in a relationship. dont just sit around an be used like that. wut if yu end up pregnant...i guarentee yu hes not gonna want anything to do with the child or yu.
honestly i cant believe yu sat around bein someones fck buddy for 2 years. like it didnt even occur to yu that he wasnt leavin yu for her then an now that they arent together he dont want yu...think about that....wut is there for yu to keep tryin for?? its been 2 years. if he dont want to be wit yu after 2 years i dont think he ever will.
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He told you he is just using you for sex.
What would you 'keep trying' at? There is nothing to 'try' for. This is not a relationship. He told you straight up that you are just a quick fuck.
Either learn to help yourself, resist him and let it go, or continue on as his casual plaything. Your choice.
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