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"Best Friends"
So I'm pretty much in tears right now. When you here it, it'll probably sound retareded but if you were actually "there" it would have felt horrible. Friday, I was suppose to meet my 2 best friends at the mall. I told one of them they had to be there by 6, my parents had plans. So i got there at 6:30, and they were both still at there house, so my parents were like were not leaving you there, were goin to drop you off at the game. So they ended up callin and i was like sorry my parents made me go to the game. The next day, i went to my friends house and i was going to invite one of the friends from the other night but she was like "oh i don't wanna go with her" So i texted her and was like whats ur problem? my parents said i couldnt go blah blah blah. Then she just started cursing at me, saying how i am nobody and how my mom "buys me love" and all this stuff that eventually made me just break down crying. Then on Monday the other girl who wasnt involved but also was one of my "best friends" from that night just texted me saying i have no right to tell this girl stuff i said (which i don't know what was bad) and how i was nothing and needed a reality check. My mom eventually saw all of this and texted them both back saying to please stop. Then the girls mom got involved and called my mom, where my mom started to yell at her because she already had problems before (we took the girl on a trip, and her parents pretty much didn't even thank them and yelled at them after) so now im stuck. I just lost my 2 best friends, my moms pissed, and I'm just alone. Help?
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awwww....im sure uv got every reason to be sad ,but you shud always remember were all human and we all get jelous somtimes.im sure those friends u were talking about were just envying you or jelous because uv got somthing they ol wishd they had but dont.....so what i think you shud do is just keep a little distance from your friendz for now and just let them get out all the heat...im sure u guyz will work things out and be back to friendz in no time...
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I've been in a similiar situation when I was younger and its tough because you feel alone and hurt. These girls clearly though...to be brutally honest are not friends...for them to be cruel to you like this is nothing but cowardly. So what if you had to go to the game...they were late and thats on them thats not your fault. The fact that they got so upset with you that they would say such hurtful things is not what a friend would do or should do. You're better off without them...go find some new friends...I realize its easier said then done but honestly you don't need people like that in your life. Your mom is pissed most likely because of the situation and not because of you so you should let her cool down and just talk about the situation with her later. Hold your head up...its good that you saw this side of them they showed their true colors to you therefore now you know what they're like and thats why you need to look for new friends.
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Sometimes in life you will find out your Freinds are not your true freinds. I know how you feel. I been there and knowsomething. at your age everybody is growing up and sometimes freinds grow apart. but what you need todo is just ingore them and forget them. goes for the ones that want too be your friends. don't get in to the drama. Trust me.. Just be your own freind then you relize what kind of freinds are ment to be your freinds. Hope I help. and yet find a new freind hang out with. find someone sitting alone at lunc and sit with them. :o)
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Those girls don't sound nice at all. Why would they bring up stuff like your mom "buys you love"?
How is that even relevant to the situation? It sounds like they had some harsh feelings building up about you before this happened and they decided to just pour it all out because they thought it would be the right moment since there was already conflict. If you have a friend who goes as far as making you cry...you're better off without them!
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Im in the same situation. You have no idea what you did and are just alone. I dont know what to do either so maybe we could help eachother?
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