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being fingered.
when my boyfriend is fingering me ill climax...then he'll keep going and it kinda hurts...i guess it gets really sensitive...is this normal? or is there a way to stop it?
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Most guys are clueless about female anatomy and are pretty rough with their own genitals. They don't remember or "get" that a girl's genitals are more hidden and mostly internal.
The clitoris itself has millions of nerve endings and the hood hides more than even half of it or so it's believed leaving a part exposed. Naturally, if he's being too forceful it's going to hurt. It's up to you to say "WHOA STOP, OUCH." and tell him why so he doesn't continue further.
He won't know unless you say it's too rough. Explain to him how sensitive and sore it gets. Another reason guys don't understand is that they're often circumcised. Non-circumcised guys have a forsekin protecting the head and would feel the same kind of sensitivity after awhile that other guys don't.
So, it's all natural that after climax you need to stop or it gets irritated. Is there a way to stop? Well, I'm a not female but maybe a water based lubricant from a pharmacy if your body isn't producing enough. I dunno, I'm a male but hazarded an educated guess.
Also, it doesn't have to involve penetration either. If he just does that without lubrication and very rough than no wonder it hurts after time. Tell him to ease up on being rough and exactly what you like and don't want him to do. Unless you speak up when something hurts he can't change it.
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Your Clitoris is just really extra sensitive when you orgasm. It's completely normal. Just a tip: Casually take your hand on top of his when he keeps on doing it and move your hand to his area -it may give him the notion that you want to please him and letting him know that's he's done his job.
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It's normal. Most women find after they've climaxed, their sexual tension is released - therefore causing discomfort if they carry on. I get like it sometimes, too.
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Being more sensitive is normal. There really isn't any way to stop it. Just tell him this and have him
either stop after you climax, or ease up and be more gentle.
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I'd say it's normal to feel some discomfort, especially depending on how long it took you to climax. If it took a while, if he keeps going, that would mean overstimulation which can lead to numbness and pain.
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