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Reasons For Ignoring Someone
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Could anyone list any good reasons why a guy would completely ignore a girl out of nowhere? Like this guy has known I liked him for several months andwe barely talked about it but we texted each other a couple of times and he truly made it seem like we were still good friends and out of nowhere he started ignoring me..it's been two weeks now. And he told my friend that it's because I'm boring and annoying but it really doesn't add up because in the conversations we had he was holding up the conversation more than I was, and it's relatively easy to tell when someone is annoyed with you and he wasn't. I did nothing wrong and I'm trying to move on from him but it's hard to when I have no idea what his issue is and he won't speak (I only texted him the first day it's started, and twice two weeks later, which is like friday and today. what I'm trying to say is I know my limit, I'm not nagging him to answer me). Also he completely freaked at my friend for telling me some of the things she told me he said about me (long story how he found out), like he completely FREAKED, and hes still mad now but he still is actually responding to her when she speaks to him...so if I did nothing wrong, why is he ignoring me? We've been past the fact that he knows I like him for a couple months, and that we were just friends. And me being annoying, and I admit i can be at times, hasn't stopped anyone from talking to me? And he's talking to someone that he's even angrier with? I mean he does tend to deal with things by not talking about them at all, but this is just ridiculous. It's just a really confusing frustrating situation and it seems simple to just move on and get over it but when someone is completely ignoring you out of the blue like that and you can't understand why its just not easy to. We were good friends and he was TRULY acting like it in the conversations we had before he started ignoring me. Can I just get some reasons of why someone would do this? Postive or negative, hurtful or logical, anything, just list anything you think could make sense.
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To me, it sounds like he wasn't interested in you from the start & only wanted to be friends. However, when you said you liked him he may have felt pressured to like you back and figured that ignoring you and not being your friend would be better than telling you how he felt.
Obviously, he's a coward. He can't even tell you something so simple so he chooses to be a jerk about it.
In my opinion, just stop trying to deal with him. If that's how he's going to be, then don't even try to be his friend anymore. It's obvious he can't be nice and straightforward so you shouldn't even waste your time. Move on sweetie, he's an asshole.
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There really isn't an excuse for just completely ignoring you since you were still just friends. But you did say that you liked him, did he say he liked you back? If he did then maybe he found something that bothered him about you. Maybe you got into talking about past relationships or maybe he found out about yours from your friend. That could be a reason. Another could be he's talking to an ex or another girl he "likes" and didn't want to lead you on. There could be alot of reasons think about the last things you talked about. And gl
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The fact that he didn't ignore your friend, but he ignored you..is very odd. He said you're annoying and boring..that's just extremely rude and shows a lack of respect for you. However some reasons besides the 'annoying and boring' is: It's possible he developed feelings for someone else and is ignoring you because he doesn't want to hurt you, He may want to play hard to get, or maybe he does have feelings for you and doesn't know how to act on them. Now, I'm not sayng those are the reasons! I'm just giving examples. If I were you, I'd try to get in touch with him and ask him what his problem is. I'm honestly not sure why he became a total jerk..but, I have a feeling he just isn't interested and is ignoring you to get the point across. Find a guy who doesn't treat you like this. This guy has no respect at all.
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This totally sucks and im sorry you are having to deal with it!
I know all too well how hormanal teenage boys can be and let me tell you, they say girls are hard to understand!? Guys are just as hard in my opinion.
I went through a similar situation with a guy. We talked for months and even went out on "dates" together. We had lots of fun and he was always the one calling ME. Then one day, I wake up and he just doesn't txt me. It was weird because every morning when I woke, I would have a txt from him that said good morning!! :)
I thought maybe he had overslept and just left it at that but it happend for a week! No txts. I thought he was busy so I tried calling. It rang once and he hit the ignore button so it went staight to voicemail. I know because when I was with him I had seen him do that when someone called that he didn't want to talk to.
I was really hurt and I had a friend ask and he said I was boring and he wanted to move on.
He always laughed and smiled and cuddled with me all the time so I don't see how I was boring.
Turns out, another girl came along and they started dating so he didn't need me anymore. :-(
Keep your chin up and give him his space. Don't obsess about it or anything, and just move on. One day he might end up back in your life!! Never know. =]
Hope this helps!!
Steph 21
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