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IM WORRIED ABOUT MY BF!


Question Posted Tuesday March 24 2009, 6:51 am

I AM REALLY WORRIED ABOUT MY BF. TO START OF WITH he is 11 and i am 16 and WE STARTING GOING OUT LAST AUGUST TILL EARLY THIS MONTH WHEN HE DUMPED ME AND A WEEK LATER HE TOLD ME HE DIDNT WANT TO DUMP ME HIS BRAIN TOLD HIM TO AND HE STILL LOVED ME AND WE TALKED AND GOT BACK TOGETHER AND HE TOLD ME HE HAS ADHD AND IED. Then now he keeps saying he hears voices telling him to join them in hell and how he hates his life and wants to kill himself and he worried me the other night cause we were talking and then he changed and started saying stuff like i hear the bells ringing hahaha bye im goin to kill myself and he went and i was worried and i even had to phone his sister to see if he was alright as he switched his phone off and she said he was unhappy. then last nite it happened again me, him and his mate were talking and he changed and started saying stuff and then didnt rember and then he went he was coughinh up blood and his mom was talking with him and he went off and i am so worried about him cause i love him so much and i dont know what to do i just wanna be with him and help him but i dont know how........

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christina answered Tuesday June 16 2009, 7:22 am:
You both need therapy. You need it for being borderline pedophile over there, and he needs it because he wants to commit suicide.

Tell his parents. Then tell your parents, and get help for the both of you.

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voodoopoison answered Wednesday March 25 2009, 10:54 am:
Problem one: you are 16. he is 11.

Problem two: you need to tell his parents or his school counselor.

Problem three: if you are with an 11 year old BOY. you need help.

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BahaiMa22 answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 10:51 pm:
Is this for real?

If you are really dating someone who is 11 years old when you are 16 then there you go, THAT is the problem. First off, Not only wrong and disgusting...but to be honest he is just a kid, a boy, a child and it sounds like the kid is going through a tough time and yes, It sounds like YOU need to see a therapist.

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canada2011 answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 7:56 pm:
I know you prolly have already heard this but your b/f is 11! whats wrong with you, sounds like you have issues of your own if your 16. Sounds like you both need to go see a therapist.

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holahayley56 answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 7:56 pm:
I'm confused. Is this joke? Are you really 16? Is he really 11? Is that a typo? I'm going to answer this like it wasn't a typo. Even though I really hope it is..

First of all, if you two are really 5 years apart, that is crazy and messed up. He is a little boy, for starters. That is a hugee gap in age. Whether you say he is mature for his age or not, there is no way he is as mature as a 16 year old.

Anyway, besides the coughing up blood thing, if you didn't see that happen, I don't really think that's true, he would be really sick, and need to go to the hospital. (I'm assuming, I'm not a doctor.. but I'm just guessing that is a pretty big deal.) Anyway, if he really is 11, he is a little kid, and he is making up lies, a lot of younger kids do it. My brother tells people that he hit his head and had to be in the hospital for 5 days and almost died. (that never happened)
So yeahh.

However, he could be mentally ill too, and if your that concerned, tell his parents/guardians.

I'm guessing there was a huge typo in this, because you don't sound like a 16 year old at all. I'm guessing you are like.. 13? and he is 11? That makes better sense..

Just tell your parents or his.. they'll know how to take care of it, kiddo.

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amygwen answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 7:46 pm:
First off, why are you dating an 11 year old? I mean, when I was 16 I was desperate to find a boyfriend - but not one 5 years younger then me. I think your boyfriend is a big time attention seeker and he sounds really really immature.

Tell him he needs psychological help, get a different boyfriend who isn't eleven, & move on with your life.

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