Ok well my friend's sweet 16 is coming up and it's an indoor pool party. And I'm not sure what to wear because I can't wear bathing suit bottoms or shorts because you can see my self-harm scars. so maybe someone can help me figure out what to wear. And please don't give me answers like "you shouldn't self-harm, it's unhealthy and bad" I know it's unhealthy and what not but you don't know me and what I've been through. all I'm asking for is advice what to wear not my depression/self harming issues. so if you could help that would be great.
thanks !
LM answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 11:34 am: Have you considered wearing a bikini or tankini top, and board shorts? If your scars are mostly above your knees that would work perfectly. You could say something like "Oh, my legs aren't beach-ready yet. I'm so pale!" if you're asked about your clothing choice.
And I know you don't want to hear it, but asking for help isn't a sign of weakness. Just remember that, ok?
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