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self-harm scars and swimming


Question Posted Monday January 26 2009, 12:25 pm

Ok well my friend's sweet 16 is coming up and it's an indoor pool party. And I'm not sure what to wear because I can't wear bathing suit bottoms or shorts because you can see my self-harm scars. so maybe someone can help me figure out what to wear. And please don't give me answers like "you shouldn't self-harm, it's unhealthy and bad" I know it's unhealthy and what not but you don't know me and what I've been through. all I'm asking for is advice what to wear not my depression/self harming issues. so if you could help that would be great.
thanks !

-Michelle Monster <3


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frankie1973 answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 2:55 pm:
How about those new swim dresses.

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LM answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 11:34 am:
Have you considered wearing a bikini or tankini top, and board shorts? If your scars are mostly above your knees that would work perfectly. You could say something like "Oh, my legs aren't beach-ready yet. I'm so pale!" if you're asked about your clothing choice.


And I know you don't want to hear it, but asking for help isn't a sign of weakness. Just remember that, ok?


-LM
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Roxy07 answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 3:08 am:
Hey there.. What about a sarong, they are so hot right now!!!

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