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rude friends?
there are some friends i have that are boys and usually they say hi to me but sometimes they just completely ignore me. they know im there and they look at me but dont even say hi.
why would they do that?
and also this one specificly used to always smile at me but once me and his best friends stopped having a thing he acted like we werent even friends.
now dont get me wrong these guys are my best friends i barely talk to them. they are just one of those people you say hi to be nice and you talk to them if they are around barely. "small talk"
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ive been in this situation before. the most likely reasons for this are because your a girl and they dont feel that friend connection that they do with guys. or because you are a pretty girl and they dont want to be seen with you because people might think your dating one of them and in their minds, that ruins their status. hope this helped.
sarah catherine.
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hii, i really dont think they have anything against you or anything. but theyre guys, they dont take these situation as serious as girls do. im sure they dont even know that theyre hurting you by ignoring you. i had the same problem with this guy friend. like he always ignored me when i walked by them but when he talked to me he was talking to me like i was a supergood friend. like he didnt even notice he was ignoring me when he walked by me me you know? but he didnt have anything against me, when i told him how i felt he was really shocked and didnt know he came across like that. some guys are just weird and clumsy haha (: and some guys also want girls to talk to THEM. i know its weird lOl. like so what i think you should do is say hi and see how it goes. dont wait for them to say hi to you, you make the move! what have you got to lose, and again, i really dont think that they dont like you. and as someone else said, maybe its also because of your ex and his friends are just supporting him. why dont you try being friends with your ex and maybe things will lighten up.
good luck (: xx
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Maybe their shy. Maybe the one boy feels awkward talking to you now, because his good friend doesn't like you or whatever anymore. So maybe the guy you were dating or whatever is mad at you or something.. so the rest of the guys feel weird talking to you.. that's my best guess.
try talking to them, you don't have to have a conversation or anything. just be like hey & smile & just keep walking, or if you want to talk to them more be like how are you/whats up.
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They're guys; that's why. Us girls will never understand them and their mindsets.
Why don't YOU try and talk to THEM?
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-Laura (17-f)
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Ok i had the same problem ask if you can talk to them without their crew and say wats the deal id like to no why ur ignoring me? if they dont answer they might like you and theyre crew doesnt approve but thats boys for you.
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