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im done with my life UGH!!!!


Question Posted Saturday August 23 2008, 3:54 am

you knw what ill just type this as fast as i can i dont care about spelling errors bcuz i am sooo mad.
i am sick of my life
frst of all because of my sister
one sister is the problem child in the family and my parents dont know that she [lots of times] blackmails me
and ive had it
im usually the nice girl
and im DONE
my sister [olderrrr] she puts on a fake pesonality with other ppl but with me shes suck a bi*ch.. im so mad i dont even know what im typing
i forgot everything i wanted to say
my life sucks
im ONLY 14
BUT WQHY does this happen to me
i need a punching bag
where can i get one
i just cant wait for school because thats the only place i can hopefully find happinessi
im so pissed off my life sucks
this is not how a teenge lifeshud be like
whatsss w


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aidant1234 answered Monday September 1 2008, 6:16 pm:
Look...everyone has hard times in there life. Im a guy, I have a little bro whoz the same way. But when he annoys me I usually just ignore him or I punch him...i do not recommend this. Now, since I see that you like writing so much you should write down everything she does that annoys you and how it makes you feel. Read this every day and then go online and check the news. See how other people would die to be you. 4 year olds in Africa are dying of many diseases...I bet they would kill to be in your position. Love your sister because things happen and one day she might not be there...It happened to me...dont make the same mistake...

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AskRhiRhi answered Monday August 25 2008, 4:08 pm:
Well, think of it this way, someone has it worse.
I have a gay brother, and girl, he is wayyyy worse than a girl. My brother is two and a half years older than me but throws temper tantrums like he's three. But really, he's 18. When he's pmsing, our house is the war front. We were both in the band, and he was band president, so everyone was like.."Oh kevin's so amazing." He put on a fake front with a lot of people at school, making it seem like he was amazing. He's not. He tried to black mail me too, but i caught him in stuff and i though about things we did when we were younger, and if you think of the right things, they become your best friend. Dig up some dirt on your sister. it really helps. Or, just wait till she goes to college. It gets quieter.
Good luckk :)

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xocareox answered Saturday August 23 2008, 7:11 pm:
girll, that is the life of a teenager with siblings.
your older sister is in highschool, basically highschoolers are fake, thats just something you'll have to get used to unless you wanna become friends with her. thats what i did and it helps.. alot. seriously, just compliment her or whatever you wanna do. orr if shes having a really bad day and shes being really bitchy, then give her space. maybe your the one pissing her off.
& you dont neeed a 'punching bag' - if anything, use a pillow.
just saying. (:

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letloveunite answered Saturday August 23 2008, 11:31 am:
HAHAHAH I FEEL YOU!! I COMPLETLY UNDERSTAND! :)

well..other than i'm the older sister and she's younger...

ahem* i'm 16 and she's 6...10 YEARS APART... woooo...

it's tough...just be glad your sister doesn't constantly poke you boob during church cause she finds it hillar... :P

Hmmm you know...it's best to not take revenge.(i'm not saying that you were planning to.) but thats the difference between you and your older sister...your true to your words and you have the bright and great personality when meanwhile your sister has to ACT out that great personality.

SOME DAY...someone else will see this different side of your sister...be granted her husband will. But when you think about it...your a younger sister...you should always support her...

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xlovexx463 answered Saturday August 23 2008, 8:15 am:
I don't think that you are "done with life". That is what someone suicidal says, and suicide should not be taken lightly. You are having some troubles right now but who isn't? In the long scheme of things, your sister being mean to you is not worth saying things such as "I am done with my life".

I'm going to give you advice about your sister. You guys are probably just going through the rough years of sibling rivalry. Nobody's relationship with their sibling is completely perfect. It's nothing new and nothing worth killing yourself about hun.
My parents have generally better relationships with their siblings now because they're adults and have matured. And you don't even have to be an adult though, it's maturity. Nobody's perfect, yes. But just stay calm and ride out these tough years. No big deal.

Your life does not suck. You want to go back to school that's good. I can't wait for school to start either because I want to see everyone. That's normal, again nothing worth getting upset about.

You said: "This is not how a teenge lifeshud be like". Well, what exactly is a teenage life supposed to be like? Everybody's different and you can't base your life on somebody else's. Are you going by a teenage stereotype? Because I have news for you: It's not like how they show it on TV. And the girls and/or guys that you might see around school who you think lead the "teenage life" don't go exactly by the book either. So, be yourself and don't compare to stereotypes.

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