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Guy into me for the wrong thing?
15/F
For five months i've been dating this guy, and all has gone well!
He's really respectful, and sweet, and it seemed he really liked me for me.
About two weeks ago, we started making out on a daily basis.
Which is fine, because i really love him, and i love kissing him and stuff. But lateley everytime i try talking to him, or want to have fun, making out is all he wants to do.
Now, i said this before, i love making out with him, but i want to do other things too sometimes you know?
Yesterday, he brought me in the garage so we could do nothing BUT make out.
Theres more to realationships and love then just making out.
I know hes really into me and i know he loves me, but what are some very slight hints i can give him that will indicate that i want to do something else when i dont feel like making out?
Dont say change the subject because it never works, i tried it.
He'll just say "You're so pretty"
or
"You're so cute"
and then he'll kiss me.
what do i do?
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Or you could just dump his sorry rear.
It's not love. It's hormones.
cheers,
stargirl
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im going to say this in one word your "FIFTEEN" your at the age where love is not the issue right now and the only thing hes thinking about is sex cuz if thats all he wants to do is makeout he just wants to have sex with you. you should be worrying about having fun and if this guy just wants to makeout hes not worth the time dump him and dump him fast before you get hurt
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well, this is coming from a very blunt person, but here's what i'd do:
just tell him politely how you're feeling. tell him what's wrong and how you want to make it better, and ask for any input from him.
if he says it's over because of that, or tries to pull something along the lines of "i'm just trying to show you how much i love you!": he's not worth it. there are plenty other ways to show someone you love them.
-collin
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Go somewhere public where he won't want to make out. Go mini golfing, or something that requires you to be doing something, so you won't have time to make out anyways.
Or just tell him you don't want to make out. One of the best things to have in a relationship is honesty. So just be honest with him, and tell him you want to take it down a notch. Tell him what you told us, that there's more to this relationship than making out.
-Laura. (16-f)
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try eating a lot of garlic or onion before you are going to hang out.
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I had this idea. How about not going where you will be alone. That way he won't have the opportunity to make out with you. However that will cause a bigger problem. The longer you do this the more he will long to get you back into the situation you are trying to avoid. Unfortunately since I am a guy I know where he is heading. For men we are all wired the same. We are visual. That means our feelings are usually based on what we see. Seeing you turns him on and in the end he will want to complete his conquest. Men are made to procreate. It is impossible to completely control the desire. In order for a relationship to continue there must be clear guidelines of our own expectations. That means you have boundaries and if his relationship with you is going to continue he must stay within those boundaries. YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO SET THOSE BOUNDARIES OR END UP DOING WHAT YOU KNOW ISN'T RIGHT! Hope this helps.
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