My boyfriend & I made plans for last night on Sunday. He called me after work yesterday & asked if I had any ideas of what to do. I said no. He said his friends wanted to hang out with him so he would call me if he got bored. I got so mad, I just had to hang up. We had plans for last night for days, and then he says he'll just call me when he gets bored??
Then he asked me later in a text "Why do you make me feel so guilty when I see my friends?" When I explained that he basically blew me off, he just said that he thinks maybe we should just be friends because I'm too sensitive lately. Then he revealed that he was drunk with friends while he was texting me.
I don't understand this at all. I know he likes me because we've almost broken it off before but he always wants to stay together. Am I being oversensitive? :(
That being said, maybe you should just be friends. This guy seems to have no idea how to treat a girlfriend. Talk to him about it and let him know that he is being an idiot. If nothing changes, you may want to consider dumping him. He needs to be there for you. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
MrsCarter answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:19 pm: 13/f
you are deffenitly not being sensative!
i think this guys a jerk just by seeing this. he obviously doesnt care what your feelings are, and hes not trying to make it better.
im sorry for how hes treating you, honestly i would just do the same back when he really wants to see you and then dump him ha ha
but if your not like that then just tell him how you feel and try to make things work=]
hope i helped at all [ MrsCarter's advice column | Ask MrsCarter A Question ]
mikesadvice answered Thursday July 17 2008, 1:35 pm: NO! It is obvious he doesn't want a deep relationship. Most men are shallow and only miss what they have only after it's gone. It may be you want more from a relationship than he does so that leaves you with only two choices. Accept what he is willing to offer or find someone more suited to your intentions. Sorry! [ mikesadvice's advice column | Ask mikesadvice A Question ]
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