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my stepfamily
so ive asked questions on here before about my stepmom and family sit or whatever but here I am again. so..
Im supposed to be going to my dads in Nevada in like 2 weeks. im way excited because i love my Dad and miss him like crazy. I also love my stepmum but havent been real close with her and want to be. any ideas of some fun stuff her and I can do together? My mom is still being nasty about mhy dad as usual but after tlking with a skool councelor and stuff i know she acts this way because she is kind of jealous that my dad has remarried and is happy and she hasnt done that yet so i just ignore her. any ideas for stuff to do in that area? thnks!
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Hey kittzen there,
Listen are you a girl or a boy, whatever dosn't matter. think of fun ways to get both of your intrest in like you can go shopping or talk girl talk. Or if your Step moms a tom boy take her to the race track do some fun little things that make you both happy also it's a good idea to go alone with her leave your dad out of the picture when you spend one on one time with each.
It is also a good idea to you know get your dad and her to gether and spent time with both of them don't be afrid on the subject just talka bout them, talk about yourself and enjoy the time you have.
Spend time with each,
Kittzen
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Hey!!
I think that its great you get along with your dtep mom. Some things you could do to become closer are
--Mall
--Movies
--Just go on a walk and chat :]
--Help her with chores and stuff. && if your step mom cooks, then help her cook dinner and stuff.
Hope I helped. Good Luck!!
-Schmivvy♥
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I think TMZ was on the right track about finding places of interest for your step mom and you to enjoy. Another possibility is that she may be interested in what you like to do as well in order to continue forming a bond with you. In that case I would pick equal amounts of activities that fulfill both goals so that you will both enjoy your time together. I have lived inmy town all of my life but I still have to get on the internet to find out places of interest sometimes so try on line! You may be surprised with what you come up with, and as for your mom, put her on a need to know basis. I have children and I am divorced and at first it used to hurt to think of them[kids] being close to someone that I am no longer with and that they are happy ex and new spouse] while I was miserable but I soon got over that. The less I know the better and I realize the kids have a right to have meaningful relationships with their dad and his new spouse so be happy and have fun. I hope this was of some use to you...
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Well im not from nevada so i dont know specifics. But depending on what your step mom is like you could try mini golf or going to the movies or maybe go shopping at the mall. Try to maybe go out to eat or go get your hair done or your nails. Something fun but like i said im not from around there but there go for ideas.
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