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Question Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 10:33 pm

Me and this girl, said some things to this kid, that we probably shouldn't have. it was really mean, and i regret it a lottt. however, i'm now worried about our safety. i don't know what to do. im really scared hes gonna like freak out, and come and like bring a gun to school or something. i seriously dont even wanna go monday. i mean the way he looked at me, freaked me outtttt. i dont know? am i over exaggerating? i dont wanna die? helpppp.

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Melody answered Sunday May 18 2008, 6:53 pm:
Sounds like you are feeling guilty for what you did. You should.

Bullying is what causes violence in schools if you ask me. The people bullying the kids who finally snap are just as guilty if you ask me.

Hopefully you feel bad for what you did, and you aren't just scared that he'll hurt you. When you go to school Monday, apologize!

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thelaura answered Sunday May 18 2008, 8:07 am:
Okay, you are probably over exaggerating and I doubt he's going to come and murder you both, but you have to face up to what you have done and apologize. Tell him you were out of order and didn't mean what you said. Hopefully he will forgive you within time and you won't have to worry any more.
Don't miss school over it. Be brave and say sorry and let it be a lesson to you both.
Best of luck.

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Katlyn answered Sunday May 18 2008, 3:28 am:
don't worry just go to school maybe you should tell a teacher that way you dont get hurt or you could just say sorry and hope this kid forgives you.

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GilbertMar answered Sunday May 18 2008, 12:29 am:
Face the music and ask him to forgive you. Take something of your own that you treasure and lead with that. Give it to him and tell him you are sorry and you had no right to say those things. Tell him that to atone for what you have done, as a means to remind you to be kinder to people, you would like to give him this item. Make sure it is something that you value, not just a token. He suffered a loss of dignity, you must suffer loss as well.

All good things start with a gesture of kindness.

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