|
is it real??
just yesterday a friend of mine called me and told me some things about me bf. she told me he's cheats on me constantly and names plenty of girls. i was only really upset b/c this isn't the first time i've heard things like this about him. i have talked to him and i called about it b/c the stuff she told me had me pissed. he says its not true of course and doesnt understand why i dont trust him. i told him i dont a while ago b/c of all this stuff going on and he said he trust me. all i need to decide for now is who ima believe b/c i cnt leave him unless i really knw. so who should i believe??
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well can you trust your friend? How long have you known her? Is she your best friend? If you feel like you can trust her, then you may want to believe her. It all really comes down to that, if you can trust her enough to know that she isn't lying. Considering you have heard it a few times, you may want to consider getting rid of him, you can do so much better than someone who is going to cheat on you. Believe who ever your gut tells you believe.
Hope I Helped.
]
I cant really answer, but heres what i would do. I would trust the bf because your friend may be jealous.
]
rumors and lies get spread all the time in school, and you shouldnt automatically believe them. if shes named girls why dont you try talking to some of them? get some evidence before automatically breaking up with your bf, since your friend could be lying, or just mistaken.
]
if you have heard it before it is most lilkly to be true.
always remenber there is plenty more fish in the sea
]
wow, that's hard to respond to.
Ok, well there are two sides to this.
1)Your friend told you herself and you also said you have heard this before. Well, you have to think, 'why would they lie to you?'. They could be telling you this because they care about you and don't want you to get hurt. They are warning you of it.
2) If your bf himself said he didn't, then you believe him there as well.
So, what i would sugest is that maybe go up to one of the girls he suposidly(sp) cheated on. Ask her. This way you have another confermation. If the other girls say no, then you have nothing to worry about. But, if they tell you 'yeah, we went on a date' then you have to confront your bf about this.
good luck.
]
Well really you got to put aside what every one else is feeling. I mean go with your gut on this one.
Once a Player Always a Player.
Thats right they lie. And it isnt the first time he cheated. So maybe you and your friend should do a little spy work on him. Like have you ever seen the Taylor Swift- Picture To Burn music video?? It deals with this. The girl and her friend do a stake out and watch him and find him with a girl, then she gets revenge by destroying his apartment. You should look it up on youtube. Its really good and deals with this situation.
-hayley
]
More Questions: |