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He Give Me His Number But...., doesn't ask for mine. What d
I guess the answer is quite obvious but as always, fool in like always think up of excuses only until the truth is blatantly staring at you in your face.
so, anyhow
there's this guy that I recently met at the wakeboarding group.
Our group meets up once a forthnight to wakeboard.
Previously he asked me if I wanted to go wakeboard with him, but because someone interrupted the conversation, it kinda stopped there.
So when our group met up again 2 days ago, I casually asked him 'so , when do you want to go wakeboarding'. His reply was 'Anytime, just give me a call.' so of course I whipped out my mobile all ready to exchange numbers. But he doesn't take his out and instead give me his number. And NEVER asked me back for mine.
So please hit me in the face and wake me up guys and gals. Does this simply mean that he's just not that into me, or not into me at all?
I kinda thought that getting a person's number is imperative if you like him/her.
confused. boo.
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I would say go ahead and call him. At least once. Maybe he just wants to know you are interested enough to call him. Guy's are sometimes a little cautious cause they are scared of getting brutally shot down. Maybe he just was taken off guard and forgot to get your number? He may have been kicking himself all the way home because he spaced and didn't get your number. You don't know, and you wont know till you call. If you make the call and he puts you off or something, then you can kinda figure he's not that into you. At this point however, give it the benefit of the doubt and make that call. Hope it all works out in whatever way finds yopu happiness. Good Luck and Take care.
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Well that is true is most cases, but maybe he is shy or doesn't want to seem to forward so he is just going to let you call him. Maybe he just wanted to see if you were interested in him? Who knows boys are the most confusing people in the world. I think you should just give him a call one day and see where it goes from there. He may ask you for your number later after he sees that you are really interested.
Hope I Helped.
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Well, you could be right. Or, maybe he's just a little on the shy side, and is sitting there waiting for you to call him. There's only one way to find out. Text him, and just say "Hey, what's up?". Or if you don't text, give him a call. Think up some stupid excuse if you need to (ie; "do you know what time our next meeting is?"). That's all you need to do. Once he's got your number, you can sit back and see what he does with it. Then you'll have your answer. =]
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Honestly, it sounds like he's not really feeling you.. If he really wanted to make sure you two would hang out, then he'd ask for your number. His response kinda seems like a "Sure, whatever" reaction. Like, if you call, why not, but if you don't call, it's not like he's not gonna be upset about it.
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Okay, big bat of obviousness right to swing...
CALL HIM!
We are not mind readers. Maybe he is really into you but fearful. Maybe he was too nervous to remember. Maybe he left his phone at home. Maybe he likes to be chased. Maybe he is an alien from Neptune who gave you a number that will trigger an explosion destroying all life on earth.
Your short interaction with him simply did NOT give you enough information to make a decision either way on this guy. You need more data.
There are two ways to get more data: Call him up and say "Hey, I'm going wakeboarding tommorrow, wanna come?" or wait around and hope he shows up next time with the group so you can feel him out somemore and maybe set a date then.
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