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Is this just a phase?


Question Posted Sunday April 13 2008, 4:46 am

I'm 15/f and over the last year or so, I always feel so irritated when my parents talk. Like I find them really annoying, even if they're are asking me something like ''what do you want for dinner''
I'm wondering if this is just a teenage phase or if there's something wrong with me?
I mean my parents are cool and I like them, but I always feel annoyed when I'm talking to them, and I hate it.

Thanks!


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helperorhelpee answered Saturday April 26 2008, 3:40 pm:
yes, it's a phase. there's nothing to worry about. i'm positive that you do love your parents very much. try hard not to get mad and answer their question simply. talk to them about it and i'm sure they will understand. best of luck.

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Vegalicious21 answered Sunday April 13 2008, 7:00 pm:
i think its just a phase, but maybe they are just annoying people! (im jokin about the annoying people, im sure you lvoe them very much)

im kind of starting that phase and im 14, so i dont know how long the phase will be but im sure it will go away sooner of later.

hope i helped.

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triquetra answered Sunday April 13 2008, 3:18 pm:
Well, I'm going through that as well so it's just another stage of our development. There's nothing to be worried about.

Like all phases, this should just pass and then all shall be normal again.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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tropicalbabe33 answered Sunday April 13 2008, 3:05 pm:
I'm 14 and I'm the same. I don't know if it's a phase because I've been like it for a few years now, but quite a few of my friends are like it, so there's definitely nothing wrong with you.

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LOL_x0x answered Sunday April 13 2008, 2:57 pm:
Yeah, it's a phase. I think most teenagers go through it, or feel like their parents are the most irritating thing on the planet at one point or another.


A tip:
When they're talking and you feel like you want to yell at them or something, just take a deep breath and think of everything they do for you. Try to calm yourself down, and just answer what they're asking you, or respond appropriately.


-Laura. (15-f)

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AngelofMercy answered Sunday April 13 2008, 2:47 pm:
Yes, it is definitely a teenage thing. It also stems into adulthood. The thing of it is as you get older three things happen.
~1~ You are starting to be independent and you want to live your life and not be bothered all the time, even if it is by your parents.
~2~ Hormones start to make your mentality change. Hormones causes you to think irrationally and get angry faster. It happens.
~3~ When you are around someone for so long, you tend to get on each others nerves. This is why you get so frustrated and annoyed when you are being talked to by them.

The best thing to do when you are feeling like this is to get away and have some space. Always remember to try and think before you speak. It is the hardest thing in the world to do, but with practice, it can be done. When you start to feel annoyed, think "why did that just piss me off?" Once you think about it, you will find it funny and just shrug it off.

Good luck.

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