You see, there is this girl that I like and in language class we make eye contact for almost 3 seconds 2 times each day. I am to shy to talk to her, and she is quiet, and normally doesn't talk to boys. She normally sticks to her friends. I am in 7th grade, and I would like to know what a 7th grade girl does when she likes you, and also if those are signs. Thank you in advanced for your replies!
Girls are eiher really bad at hiding whether or not they like you, or really good. You say she is shy, so she is probably really good. If you two make eye contact, that is a very good sign she likes you. But you need to think-is she making eye contact with you because she likes you or because you keep looking at her?
If you are too shy to talk to her, try simply smiling at her when she does look at you. See if she smiles back. If she does, she really likes you. If she looks like she is gonna faint, she likes you also. If she gives you a weird look- then she does not like you. SImple as that.
Other ways to tell if she likes you...hmm... IF she smiles at you. If she talks to you a lot (you say she's shy, so forget it) and if she can wait to hear what you have to say next.
The only thing is, you will never know if she likes you if you don't talk to her. Simply ask her for a pencil. That's how you get conversation started.
mp95 answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 4:07 pm: seventh grade girls are hard to figure out. they're quite similar to 7th grade boys, actually. when i was in seventh grade i was reeeeeally shy, as are many girls that age. when they like you they act shy and awkward around you. they might crack an awkward smile. seventh grade girls tend to stick to their friends. they might whisper and look at you and smile or laugh. that's a good thing! that means they are probably talking about one of their friends' crush on you! talk to her friends and see what she thinks for sure. good luck! [ mp95's advice column | Ask mp95 A Question ]
Normally when you think a girl likes you you have a good guess but the major ways are if they try to get close to you or come more of a friend to get closer to you there is also the way they may be acting mean towards you because they don't want you to know they like you.
General Tips
1. She calls you by a nickname and or says your name really loud and obnoxiously. Don't Worry if she doesn't though, she may quiet and shy
2. She always wants to sit or stand near you . If you're just standing there then suddenly you turn and see her there. The first time, it may be a coincidence, same with the second time. But if this continues to happen... its a major sign shes interested.
3. She likes to hug and touch you . Most girls love to hug. If she wants to hug you all the time. She's interested. OR... if she touches your arm. If girls push you and pull you places, its just a sign of flirting.
4. She laughs a lot around you . Girls LOVE funny guys. If you make her laugh... and laugh hard. Shes gonna fall for you hard!! (Although, keep in mind: When a girl laughs it may just be a sign of friendship, too) Unless, its like a really flirty laugh... or she even laughs at the lame things.
5. Her and her friends giggle when looking at you
100% she likes you.
Answer
Well it really depends on the girl, but there are some obvious ways to tell, but realize this might not be true for everybody.
For example if she.....
* acts nervous around you
* doesn't talk to you until you talk to her (she is scared that she might say something obviously wrong and you would resent her for it)
* if she acts like your not that important (but you are actually the most important person)
* if she laughs/giggles when you make a joke (be careful she might just think you are funny)
* you might not know it but she is actually looking at you from the corner of her eyes or she looks at you directly
* if she gets shy when you come close to the side of the room that she is on
* when she is talking to a group and you come in and she walks away (its not that shes not interested she is just nervous that she will act weird)
* when you look her straight in the eye and she looks back
* when she is talking to you and her friends are watching (this means that she is definitely interested and her friends want to know what you two are saying)
* if she acts annoyed when you two get put next to each other or in the same group (unless she actually hates you)
There are so many more but i don't have the time to list all of them. Remember a girl doesn't like to make the first move. And most girls wont ask a boy out. and normally if a guy asks out a girl even if she doesn't like him she is still nice about it.
and guys please don't ask one of your friends to ask her out for you.... Girls hate it and normally will say no even if they like you. because they feel like you don't like them enough to ask her out yourself.
And remember even if you get rejected 9 out of 10 times their is always going to be that one. and instead of living life alone instead of with the one you love. YOU WILL TAKE MY ADVICE.
Good luck oh and please if you like a girl just tell her she will probably feels the same way!
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Hitoast answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 10:21 pm: Well, if she's quiet, then she probably won't have the flirty casual type of signs. When I was in 7th grade, if a guy was staring at me, i'd kindof smile a bit and then pretend i'm listening to the teacher or look down. I suggest you try to talk to her :] it kindof depends how she looks at you. If she looks at you and smiles a bit, she's probably interested. If she looks at you in a weird way, she probably is curious, but too shy to talk to you. Get to know her or become friends with some of her friends. Goodluck! :] [ Hitoast's advice column | Ask Hitoast A Question ]
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